"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Love Is Always Conditional

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I thought when I went to see my son (he loves me to death) the other day. He would love me forever, not true. What If I were mean to him cursed him out never played with him? My love has conditions also love me back be a good boy. The same goes for women, they have conditions also. Usually being able to take care of them.I know this from experience I stopped going to a job because it was going out of business. My ex wife was mad at this,I don't blame her.What are my conditions for loving a women. Be a giver respect yourself and your man. Have a positive outlook don't look for handouts. l write this because many people think they will love someone unconditionally. The only person you should love unconditionally is yourself.No matter how many times you mess you should always love that person in the mirror . My goal in life is not to be the ultimate DJ but to love myself wholeheartedly.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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