"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Love having options + Called the numbers I got.

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Well, this thread is mainly about how I FINALLY called the numbers I got and also about how much I love having options. So I called two of the numbers that I got from 1 particular set of girls and I got a message saying that both of the numbers were disconnected. That to me was an instantaneous delete. Then I called these 2 other girls who didn't pick up and left a message. They STILL haven't called me back, so I may just end up deleting those. Then there was 1 chick who did answer and I asked her if she would want to hang out and she said yes. And yeah, I finally called the numbers.

But also haha, I love having options because even if a number of girls flake, I have other girls who I can hang out with. I've got the girls I've numbered closed and the girls on Facebook which is about 10 girls in itself. This way even if one flakes I can just call up another one.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Now you're making sense.

Keep calling dude, Hopefully you'll get some positive results!

and if you get more numbers, call them within a week or 2 at most i'd say.
 

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Good job,ElStud. And I completely agree with the title about having options.
This is a thread that I don't mind using one of my 10 posts on. You've taken a lot of heat from some of the members here,some of it justified,and some of it not so justified (imo). But no matter what happened or how hard people have been on you,you persevered and it seems to me like you are growing and gaining in knowledge about women/dating. It also seems like you have left behind that nonsense about kiss closing 5 minutes after meeting a girl. If that's the case,then good for you man. I commend you.:up:
 

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ElStud said:
Well, this thread is mainly about how I FINALLY called the numbers I got and also about how much I love having options. So I called two of the numbers that I got from 1 particular set of girls and I got a message saying that both of the numbers were disconnected. That to me was an instantaneous delete. Then I called these 2 other girls who didn't pick up and left a message. They STILL haven't called me back, so I may just end up deleting those. Then there was 1 chick who did answer and I asked her if she would want to hang out and she said yes. And yeah, I finally called the numbers.

But also haha, I love having options because even if a number of girls flake, I have other girls who I can hang out with. I've got the girls I've numbered closed and the girls on Facebook which is about 10 girls in itself. This way even if one flakes I can just call up another one.

:O arent u a clever one!
and do u go round asking every single girl for their facebook? wat kind of ***** are u man. and the reason the numbers werent working was because they gave u fake numbers... if a girl was really interested she wouldnt bother with bs games.
 
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