"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Love Guru style, 100 sets in 15 minutes

yuppaz

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Ok, so they weren't real sets, but I guarantee that I have perked some serious interest and built my social proof through the f*cking roof at work. I dressed up as the Love Guru and gave everyone in my company at our Halloween costume contest a flower (it sounds AFC, but it was actually SO Suave :rockon: )

Then it was my turn for the competition to do a little show and I stood up in front of everyone and told them the following:

"Karma is such an important thing these days, and can bring you great things. I have a HUGE karma (holds hands out about 10 inches apart) and it has been really great the things that happen to me" - everyone was rolling and a bunch of women were licking their lips.

So does this move me from RAFC to beginner DJ, or what?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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All it sounds like to me is a Halloween costume you cooked up to wear at work that people thought was funny. They'll probably talk about it for a day or two, then forget.

Don't let them... Forget you are a fun person that is.

Joke with the ladies at work, get their phone numbers, and BEFRIEND them (never sleep with girls you work with) Great opportunity for networking, and some of them will insist on having you meet a cute friend of theirs. Then --- Bang the cute friend.
 

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magickarl said:
(never sleep with girls you work with)
Cause clearly nobody in this site has a part time job where dating means jack all.
 

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Make female friends at work, and have them on your arms during the night. Tell them you like to take girls with you to night clubs, as it raises your social value. Promise them you'll find some good looking dudes for them.

Think outside the box.

PS: as for your act at work, i think its cool, you were just having fun, you were being the OBSERVED (in a good way) and not the OBSERVING.
 

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Thanks for the advice guys. I think you are all right about not f*cking girls from work because I can see all the drama that would come when I get tired of them. Plus I am senior management so I could get harassment charges etc just because some chick wants money (I would never really do anything like use my position in that kind of way). The friends idea kicks ass and thats what I think I'll go for. Right now there is a chick (older but very horny and wants my d*ck like I have never experienced before...she was explaining how I should mount her on Friday...but I need to avoid the sh*t out of her, I think she is BPD).....anyways, it was really an @ssload of fun to do too, and I can see this as a great way to build a better social web (don't have one at all now) and get in with the friends.


I also wanted to say that this site kicks mutha f*cking ass!!!! Almost everything that so suave stands for is completely true. I was a total dud, but I read the bible and soooooo many great posts and I have learned that if you build up your body, wardrobe, primp a little bit, be a man that just has fun without expectations women all of a sudden just seem to want to be around you and follow you. I could seriously screw any number of women I have been meeting since I started lifting, dressing better, and not believing the hotties are in any way better than me or intimidating in any way. I get like 20 times the attraction that I used to where I used to be completely hopelessly AFC. I am also having an easier time of things in general and having WAY more fun then I ever did in the past.

YOU GUYS ROCK!!!!!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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daygame - I also noticed that some guys are way cool about all the attention and stuff I have been getting, and some that were the AMOG type are getting VERY annoyed. Did you guys start getting these kinds of vibes when you first began (if that is the case that it was learned) becoming more ALPHA?
 

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yuppaz said:
daygame - I also noticed that some guys are way cool about all the attention and stuff I have been getting, and some that were the AMOG type are getting VERY annoyed. Did you guys start getting these kinds of vibes when you first began (if that is the case that it was learned) becoming more ALPHA?
Ideally guys should think you are cool, if you befriend them and respect them. Give credit to all the guys and become a leader figure at work.

Ladies will be easy. Just go under the "female friends" radar every Friday/Sat night with your female buddies and you'll end up having more options than you can handle.
 
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