"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Love at first sight.. ok not Love but how should i tackle this

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ok so i was checking out of stop n shop earlier in a self-check out register when the receipt jammed up and it started requesting help. the girl employee that came to the rescue was absoultely stunning and i was taken by surprise and completely froze up. usually for me talking to girls at their work is tough since they always seem too preoccupied and this was the case for this girl, she was running around from register to register.

now, i know a guy that works in that store and i could ask him about that girl, would this be weird? should i try going back and seeing if i'd bump into her again? try fnding her on facebook with the help of my friend?

any suggestions please
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You need to go in and catch her working in the shop. ask her where to find an item. isolate her there and fluff talk and ask for the number.
 
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And to add to that, you better get her number the next time you see her. Wait too long and it won't work.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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I agree with the previous posters. And definitely, damn, no adding to facebook. Get the number.
 
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