"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Louisville Area 4th st. live 8/2/08

amoka

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Louisville and its surrounding areas meets on August 02, 2008 at 4th st. Live.

The agenda:
08:00pm, Meet and head to the bar (for something to drink)
10:00pm, Start sarging till satisfied.

If you can make it, please let everyone know by responding.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SoIN

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Damn too bad im only 19.....I live 5 mins from Louisville......
 

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Count Me In

I have a few other PUA's that I hang out with, so Ill bring along some friends. Where on fourth street r we meeting up?
 

penkitten

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you can still get into 4th street if you are underaged, you just get a white band on and you can not drink alcohol.

also on sunday nights there are clubs that have all aged night.
 

amoka

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mastersylar said:
I have a few other PUA's that I hang out with, so Ill bring along some friends. Where on fourth street r we meeting up?
Great. Bring them along. We meet at TGI Fridays. at 8:00pm.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So anybody down for another night I didnt get to go last time.
 
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