"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Loud girl thinks she is everything

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well today i met this girl at work after a fellow friend told me she was interested, i went up to her and talked etc.. but this girl is so loud! she thinks she is everything, she talks to other men on the phone in front of me, and she tells me straight forward " oh thats a man that wants to get with me"
she keeps asking questions about sex are u good?, wat do u do?, do u eat p?, ass? do it from the back? she even mentioned doing a 3 some with a friend she had right there after work, etc.. etc... asked me to show her my penis to see how big it was, kept talking on the phone with other men... man this is just ridiculous.

At the end she was on the phone with another man and i just ripped a piece of paper and a pen and put it in front of her and i told her to write her number( she was still talking on the phone) i got it and its the right number cause i checked with a fellow coworker, but by the end she seemed like she really didnt give a f.

Right now im kinda mad, cause im at the point where i just want to show her that she does not know who shes dealing with, how we do it in Africa, Sex is not pleasure in africa sex is punishment, she keeps talking and bragging about sex , man its obvious she hasnt get plugged in hard, man... i feel like just tellin her straight up . trust me if i bang he she will cry and scream till her cords are ripped, no lie im dead serious.

What should i do here.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Yes it does. You are being easily gamed by one of the least subtle girls I've ever heard of. The meere fact that you are aggrivated and asking for advice and talking about "HOW WE DO IT IN AFRICA" shows that you need to grow up, get some balls and fight back.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Waht a dumbass and why the fuk u think i made the thread asking for advice u idiot? so i can know how to "fight back"

if u are not gonna help stay your ass outta here straight up
 

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Man you gotta be in control of your emotions... if you lose them there's nobody that can help you.
This girl sounds really ****ed up... and intriguing at the same time. However there's no way she'll fall for you unless you are the one in control. Next time she runs that **** by you... call her a slut (i don't see need to be subtle) and tell her that you aren't interested in women like her, play up respectability and having class, to me it does sound like she needs a majour spanking. Both a verbal and a real one!
 

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'Sex is not pleasure in africa sex is punishment,'

'if i bang he she will cry and scream till her cords are ripped'

Sex is also punishment in the USA, only it will be Bubba in the showers at the State Pen giving you some good lovin' when you bend for the soap if you carry on with that sort of attitude.

You need to calm down a bit. We all get annoyed with women from time to time but that kind of sadistic attitude is ultra AFC.
 

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bfl, you're an idiot.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by bfl
Sex is not pleasure in africa sex is punishment!
Is that because everybody has AIDS?
 

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Re: Re: Loud girl thinks she is everything

Originally posted by Bunk 040
Is that because everybody has AIDS?
That, and they do some sort of female circumcision on young baby girls to keep them from enjoying sex too much. That's only in some backwoods tribes in some countries, though. I don't think most modern africans still do that.
 

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well giovani thanx for that advice i appreciate it, shows a lot about you.
 

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well today i met this girl at work after a fellow friend told me she was interested, i went up to her and talked etc.. but this girl is so loud! she thinks she is everything, she talks to other men on the phone in front of me, and she tells me straight forward " oh thats a man that wants to get with me"
she keeps asking questions about sex are u good?, wat do u do?, do u eat p?, ass? do it from the back? she even mentioned doing a 3 some with a friend she had right there after work, etc.. etc... asked me to show her my penis to see how big it was, kept talking on the phone with other men... man this is just ridiculous.

At the end she was on the phone with another man and i just ripped a piece of paper and a pen and put it in front of her and i told her to write her number( she was still talking on the phone) i got it and its the right number cause i checked with a fellow coworker, but by the end she seemed like she really didnt give a f.
She demonstrated:
Social proof
And made you think about having sex with her

She did it cause she wants your cokk. I'd dismiss the guys who were calling her as non-existent.

im at the point where i just want to show her that she does not know who shes dealing with, how we do it in Africa, Sex is not pleasure in africa sex is punishment, she keeps talking and bragging about sex , man its obvious she hasnt get plugged in hard, man... i feel like just tellin her straight up . trust me if i bang he she will cry and scream till her cords are ripped, no lie im dead serious.
lol She's good and you're such a toy ;)

That's what she wanted from you in the first place.

If you'ren not afraid of catching some sh1t, then call her up and invite her to your place. I'd stay the fukk away.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by bfl
well giovani thanx for that advice i appreciate it, shows a lot about you.
Yeah, it shows I'm an excellent judge of character.
 

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what giovanni is saying, you're an idiot for taking that crap from a "b$tch" and then comming here complaining about life not being fair.
 

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This board never seems to stop amazing me.
It's kinda like an over-the-net-secret-males-club-with-no-babes-allowed where guys vent out all of their everyday frustrations.
Kinda like a greasy run down old pub with lots of frustrated guys yelling and screaming all around.

Kid, her totem is bigger then yours.

And the one with the bigger wins.
You lose this one.
 

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Actually what I'm saying is that bfl is an idiot for the following reasons:

  • He complains that the girl is loud.
  • He complains that the girl "thinks she's everything."
  • He complains that the girl talks to a guy on her cell while in his presence.
  • Despite thinking she's loud, stuck on herself, rude, et cetera, he asks for her phone number
  • He's getting mad about all of this when it would've been so easy to just walk away.
  • He's basically describing how he is so angry with her that he wants to be sexually violent and "punish" her with sex.
  • He wants to bang her until she cries and screams and "cords are ripped" -- a very sociopathic sex offender pathology.
  • Now he wants to "fight back" against a girl who has really done ZERO to him at all.
  • Oh yeah, and him wanting to go after a 14-year-old didn't do much for my opinion of him, either.
 

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She punked ya bro, as much as I hate to say it. She did all those things to test you, see what your made of. Unfortunately, you failed miserably. 'She' was in control of you and the situation the whole time. What really boggles the mind is that you 'still' asked her for her phone number. Why?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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