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Tonight I went to a big bar/club with the intention of approaching at least 10 girls. I approached 1 girl, and we couldn't even hold eye contact because we had to scream in each other's ear to talk.

I only approached one other set of girls, and I just said a quick "Why are you girls dancing by yourselves?" in between songs. The music quickly started again and that was the end of it.

Any tips on talking to girls in loud clubs, or just avoid them?
 

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thats why I hate going to clubs. Only for dancing and party with friends.
but to hit on girls it sucks. I cant even listen to myself! And my voice is low and groove so .. no one listen to my voice hahahahah

But on the other hand, when in a quiet, cool jazz bar, ehhe women love my voice.

class is everything ;)
 
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Weatherspoons for the win!

Cheap drinks and no music.
 
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