"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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lotta LTR problems up

xdreamz

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blah i hate writing my stories now they are so freaking long..

let me see if i can make this short

summary:

i meet girl. girl has ex-boyfriend problems. her ex-boyfriend left her for another girl. while this happens i **** girl. she still talks to ex-boyfriend. she still likes her old boyfriend. she continues to see me and we still ****. i push for relationship and she agrees. old boyfriend comes up along and she starts telling me shes getting busy. i go and see her and find out where she works at, she's kind of cold and distant at first so I just stayed cool and realized that everything is a ****ing game so i laugh and have fun..she then warms up later and gives me these presents and gives me a kiss goodbye. later the next day she agrees to see me and calls, but she says she's going to start working with her exboyfriend...i get mad at first but then I decided to be happy anyways and support her decision either way. i call her later that night just hoping to see her the next day she is talking to her ex and somehow she agrees to get back together with him while telling me how she will still see me (but for a shorter period of time), i get jealous so we talk some more and start saying some pretty crazy things like 'why don't you go **** your ex boyfriend then'...and then she tells me she doesn't want to be with me anymore i say fine and click on her. i text message asking her if she really wants to...the next morning she tells me that she still likes ex-boyfriend and that she's going to accept his job offer and that they are together again. i am getting kind of confused so i go see her unexpectedly with some flowers only to see her boyfriend there too.. she apologizes for everything, she tells me that there's nothing between us anymore. i have her accept the flowers by telling her "just as friends"..i tell her i still like her and she says she's really sorry but she's been very bad to me and that there were no feelings after all. i tell her that she's a good woman and leave. i still want to **** her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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theunflushables

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Yeah man, you got played. That happens ALOT. If you're ever with a girl who just got out of a relationship just expect a fling or two, relationships never work on the rebound.
 

socalrunner

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your story made me cringe. especially when you KEPT pursuing her and even brought her flowers. that attention wh0re isn't worth the 10$ you spent on them. you should have moved on once she told you she was back with him.
 

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next time, be careful with deez hoez. no disrespect, but u made a bytch move by going back 2 her with the flowers, may dat be a lession to ya
 

xdreamz

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a flowers is a girls most deadly weapon...

do not underestimate
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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xdreamz

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if i was played....then i would have been crying over her begging for her to take me back.. i'm not hurt in any way shape or form.... if i wanted to i could run solid game for another week and she'll be back in my room. so if you wanna say i was played then maybe you should go out more often and see these women take credit cards and cars and ****...
 

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Xdreamz,
why did you "push for a relationship", man?
Seriously.
Take a few minutes and then answer me.
 
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