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Master Don Juan
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What's your biggest asset/trait/anti challenge?.....let's focus on our own strong points and try to to find common ground in those.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
lots of post about "whats your biggest challenge".... instead i ask this
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I'll bite.
I think my strongest asset is my confidence. Since coming to uni I've been nervous/uncomfortable around twice, both of those instances were anomalous occasions, one striking up a conversation with a random HB7, for some reason I got really awkward and it didn't go well. The other time my mates and I were in the pub drinking and a girl approached (HB4) us. My mates kept aiming her at me, and I wasn't interested, I got nervous because I wanted her to **** off, just didn't have the heart to tell her.
But besides that I am a confidence machine.
Doesn't matter what it is, I don't get daunted by anything really any-more, I'm just confident I'll get it done. People tell me this all the time as well. Just the other day a group of girls I was talking to said they wished I had been in their group for a presentation because I would have smashed it for them.
People are always telling me how confident I am. To be honest it's probably had a positive effect on my confidence increasing it even more.
Gunner
I think my strongest asset is my confidence. Since coming to uni I've been nervous/uncomfortable around twice, both of those instances were anomalous occasions, one striking up a conversation with a random HB7, for some reason I got really awkward and it didn't go well. The other time my mates and I were in the pub drinking and a girl approached (HB4) us. My mates kept aiming her at me, and I wasn't interested, I got nervous because I wanted her to **** off, just didn't have the heart to tell her.
But besides that I am a confidence machine.
Doesn't matter what it is, I don't get daunted by anything really any-more, I'm just confident I'll get it done. People tell me this all the time as well. Just the other day a group of girls I was talking to said they wished I had been in their group for a presentation because I would have smashed it for them.
People are always telling me how confident I am. To be honest it's probably had a positive effect on my confidence increasing it even more.
Gunner
Lotus Effect
Master Don Juan
Awesome Post _sideways_. Brilliant Idea.
We are always complaining in here. It is really good to think positively for a change!
Well, first and foremost, my refined sense of humor, which is crucial to my game. It hooks them very fast!
It may sound weird, but my Aura as well. There is something about it, it's not a I don't give a f*ck aura. It's like I'm in my own world kind of frame. I'm yet to fully understand it, but once a girl is in, I trap them!
And definetely, Making out skills. Holy Jesus, I'm blessed with a kiss that is always very well complimented, altogether with massive kino habilities. In a sense, almost as Espi, when I'm making out my mind enters Refusal to give up mode.
I just don't ever give up until I get them to be very kinky...
...Very Kinky!
We are always complaining in here. It is really good to think positively for a change!
Well, first and foremost, my refined sense of humor, which is crucial to my game. It hooks them very fast!
It may sound weird, but my Aura as well. There is something about it, it's not a I don't give a f*ck aura. It's like I'm in my own world kind of frame. I'm yet to fully understand it, but once a girl is in, I trap them!
And definetely, Making out skills. Holy Jesus, I'm blessed with a kiss that is always very well complimented, altogether with massive kino habilities. In a sense, almost as Espi, when I'm making out my mind enters Refusal to give up mode.
I just don't ever give up until I get them to be very kinky...
...Very Kinky!
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Master Don Juan
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Very kinky u say, do tell haha:.......i guess I get called a prince by a lot of women, so there's something in their, but my biggest asset I think is my face...kinda lame since I can't change it for the better like humor or confidence. But yea... We should focus on our strengths, cuz women are always congratulating their fatness and if he don't love u for all ur curves and extra fat rolls , he don't deserve u nonsense.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I have a complete inability to take life seriously. And I'm good in bed. Those two things are about all I have going for me, and I think that's all I ever need. If you're fun to be around outside the bedroom and even more fun inside, then I don't think you need money, career, status, looks, physique, a nice car, or any of the other things that the consensus advice is part of the ideal package in a guy. I certainly don't have them, but I'm fun. That tends to put off marriage-minded women, but it works out fine for me.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
PlayHer Man
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Looks and wisdom.
I know people don't like to talk about looks here but they are definitely a factor and looking good makes things easier.
Because I'm good looking I probably get a lot of chances with attractive women that I otherwise wouldn't get. Because I'm wise I can fully take advantage of those opportunities.
Looks will get you more auditions. Wisdom will get you more parts.
I know people don't like to talk about looks here but they are definitely a factor and looking good makes things easier.
Because I'm good looking I probably get a lot of chances with attractive women that I otherwise wouldn't get. Because I'm wise I can fully take advantage of those opportunities.
Looks will get you more auditions. Wisdom will get you more parts.