"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lots free time. What to do?

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So I only deliver pizzas at weekend.

I do nothing during the day/week. Im not too bothered I have decent savigns adn work lined up later date.

But I figure with that free time I could just be having sex all the time. BUT how can I meet girls that just want sex?

I dont wanna do online. Im not that great looking and prefer to meet face to face and no time wasters.

What would you do in my situation.

Im thinking off just hanging round malls and uni campus/library...like a creeper lol :flowers:

See, if I see any girls check me and if so Ill stalk them and stuff lol.

Maybe Ill just chat up random girls on the street. I prefer that. I hate formal situations, clubs, pubs etc...I can walk past a cute girl and say hi?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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donnyjondeppjuando said:
So I only deliver pizzas at weekend.

I do nothing during the day/week. Im not too bothered I have decent savigns adn work lined up later date.

But I figure with that free time I could just be having sex all the time. BUT how can I meet girls that just want sex?

I dont wanna do online. Im not that great looking and prefer to meet face to face and no time wasters.

What would you do in my situation.

Im thinking off just hanging round malls and uni campus/library...like a creeper lol :flowers:

See, if I see any girls check me and if so Ill stalk them and stuff lol.

Maybe Ill just chat up random girls on the street. I prefer that. I hate formal situations, clubs, pubs etc...I can walk past a cute girl and say hi?
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It's not a bad idea. I know a guy who would sit at the mall with his friend every day after school and they'd make dares to approach women. He got better with women just doing that. At first, he approaches seemed "creepy" and "awkward", but then after 6 months of doing it, he mastered it.
 
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Matthew Lyon said:
It's not a bad idea. I know a guy who would sit at the mall every day after school and they'd make dares to approach women. He got better with women just doing that.
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I guess If I hang on street all day and approach 100 females. I should at least get 1.

And its all practice. I can figure out what works well and waht sucks. How to spot single girls. How to spot promiscous girls

3-4 weeks 100 girls per day.

It will just be too easy in future.
 
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""BUT how can I meet girls that just want sex?""

Here something i request
Sexualize your self, Like wise pea-****ing is what you get attention for
Tatoo, piercing and some thing which makes you stand off. When you are noticing some attention you can approach women. This is going to help you
since you already mentioned you have lots of free time, Work out and go to gym, learn some new things like swimming, rock climbing and every thing you can do.

Remember, when you are with a chick, you can use all the things to prove that you are worth, all those will pay off
 
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donnyjondeppjuando said:
I guess If I hang on street all day and approach 100 females. I should at least get 1.

And its all practice. I can figure out what works well and waht sucks. How to spot single girls. How to spot promiscous girls

3-4 weeks 100 girls per day.

It will just be too easy in future.
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Precisely. If you learn what works and what doesn't, you'll be golden. There's a handful of guys who just approach just to increase their numbers and don't necessarily see an increase in success on approaches. Also, if you want to limit your chances of rejection then learn to read women's subtle signs of body language (ie: eye contact, brushing of hair, raising of shoulders, etc.). Body language is very, very important. You may be doing everything absolutely right and come off as smooth and a cool guy but if you're not reading her signs as to whether or not she likes you then you're in a lot of trouble and she will almost always turn you down or hope that you'll take a hint to leave her alone. In fact, some women will give you their email/phone number just so you'll leave them alone because they don't want to be rude. So pay careful attention to everything. Despite what you may hear, this is not entirely a numbers game. You can dramatically reduce your numbers by just being observant.

Then also take into consideration that once you do get some numbers and have some dates setup, you'll need to have the life to back it all up. In other words, you need to create some kind of life for yourself instead of only delivering pizzas. This doesn't mean you need a ton of friends, go partying 24/7, but you need some kind of identity as a man.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hit the gym two times a week, get fit. Learn a new language, save up cash and take a year off to a country whereever they speak your new learned language, goodluck
 
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Hit the gym two times a week, get fit. Learn a new language, save up cash and take a year off to a country whereever they speak your new learned language, goodluck
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Im in great shape I been lfitign weights since I was 15 and playing soccer all my life.

Im skinny now and bulking up. I still got abs im trying to gain 20lbs muscle.

When I deliver pizza I stand outside the shop on the main street often, just killing time or having a smoke.

I see fit girls walk past. I wonder if it would be appropraite to comment on them and if so what to say?

I have travelled a lot. I spent 3 months in Thailand and girls were way easy there lol. I never learned any game though cause I just needed to be white and young lol
 
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Well, instead of asking what you should do, what do you want to do?
 
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Well, instead of asking what you should do, what do you want to do?
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i have no idea how to pick up girls.

I plan to at least perv in the shopping mall, student area, the busy streets etc..

BUt after perving? how to approach etc..what to say?

I saw a hot girl alone in the mall recently with a tiny dress on I kept seeing her then she walked past and in front of me walked along side me. Then she walked by me in the car park.

I dont know if it were coincedence or she wanted me to approach her..Still I wouldnt know what to say.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I dont know if it were coincedence or she wanted me to approach her..Still I wouldnt know what to say.
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Don't worry about what to say, just open your mouth and let the words fly out, as long as you don't say anything creepy, boring, or to insulting then you should be fine.
 
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