"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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HollowHorizon

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Hey guys, I can't seem to get a grip on the whole don juan thing, I know i have to change my whole life entirely and that is going to happen soon with my new job and moving to a new city, I'll be moving somtime in the next two months, I really want this to be a change , It's not to far from my old house so ill still hang with the pepole here, But i really want to blow this new town up, i want a good reputation...I am only 17 and i think getting a car might help and having my own place and bussiness would be a good quality, I need something more, Like an edge somtime too define me as me and make me stand out, i want to change my attitude and behavior all of this is a great deal of work and i'm willing to work for it.... I just can't seem to by myself all the time, i don't even know who i am......


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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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if u dont know who you are then how the **** can we help you ?

everybody is at one point oblivious about who they are , hey i dont know the hole me , i just know parts of who i am , and i keep learning more from the experiances i go through....

just experiance life , dont give so much of a sh\it about what other people think of you , and time will tell who you are...

your own place and buisness when your 17???
it will probably make you look like a snob , but i dont know , if ur interested in people who like you for your styff then hey youl find many of thos guys and girls everywhere....

u want a good rep, be a friendly with everyone...
u want an egde , be yourself... theres your edge....

peace
 
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