"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lost the game. Super depressed.

Red Legg

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Don't keep sticking your D in crazy. You are already depressed and It will only get worse for you. Go NC and forget her. If you do that though, and she is disordered, be forewarned as she will likely try to Hoover you back to her life at some future point with big promises that will ultimately mean nothing as her crazy will come out again.
Play it safe and seach this forum or google for the word Borderline and see if any bells start ringing for you.
I disagree about sticking your c0ckadoodledoo in crazy...I stick mine in crazy all the time..they are by far the best kinkiest woman around,just totally detach emotionally,if you can't do this please do yourself a favor and by a fvckin dress...the end.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I disagree about sticking your c0ckadoodledoo in crazy...I stick mine in crazy all the time..they are by far the best kinkiest woman around,just totally detach emotionally,if you can't do this please do yourself a favor and by a fvckin dress...the end.
I couldn't agree more
 

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Lost? You won. Anytime a woman disqualifies herself from your life its one less problem you have to deal with.
Sometimes I wonder what makes a pvssy so special that one has to put up with mental disorders.
I agree.

Walk away now and you win. Heck all of this and it's only been 3 months? C'mon man!
 

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I had no idea about cluster b, but I spent about an hour reading about it and, needless to say, she fits the mold. To a T. My eyes are open now.

I'm not going NC, I'm just not feeding into it and keeping it friendly. !
You were warned.
 

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About 90% of a woman's behavior is the result of her own issues, insecurities and inner demons. About 10% of her behavior has to do with you.

You're taking way too much responsibility for her nutty ways. I think it might be time for an upgrade. Get out there and start chatting with some new women. Its spring time!
My friend can you PLEASE repost this like a million times?

I swear I've been saying this shyt, but you have a mass amount of folks on here who swear that every fvcking thing a woman does is the man's fault.

It can literally be anything, where even if the chick CHEATS on her dude cause she's a slvt, somehow it's the man's fault because he didn't "keep the frame" or he was "working too much". Or if a chick has a nasty attitude problem, somehow that's a man's fault too.

You even see this shyt repeated on social media with OTHER DUDES liking the posts. Women aren't held accountable for shyt, but YET, they want to dominate/control/dictate shyt. They are out of their fvcking minds. Just like when the child of a single mother grows up and becomes something, she takes ALL responsibility for it. But if that child grows up to become a piece of shyt, she blames it ALL on the daddy :rofl:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You were warned.
Yep, the only way to win, is to walk.

It's the DJ way, and the best way if you value any shred of dignity you have left.

"Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on hell."

Happy slaving!:p
 

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This girl has serious issues. Avoid her at all costs before she impacts your psyche even more.
 
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