lost of interest? A game?

[el_guerrero]

Ok a month or so back this one girl used to drool over me, everytime she saw me she would wave and smile at me, and I barely knew her name. She'd always be staring at me across the room in classes (and quickly turn away when I looked back). It went as far as this - I would ask my teacher if I could go to the FREAKIN BATHROOM, and when I'd be walking out she'd say "bye eric", I would come back in 2 minutes later and she'd be "hi eric", and I was like "....". And finally, everytime I grouped with her for any assignment or whatever she would get all hyper and excited, one time in a class my stupid friends all grouped with eachother and there wasnt room for me, so she was the only one without a group so I asked her if she wanted to group and she got excited and went like "Yes Yes Yes Yes", it was ridiculous people, it was ridiculous.

Anyway, if that's not someone desperately trying to show she has an interest in me, I don't know what is, I just don't.

Back then I didnt take her seriously, avoided her personal questions and such, and really just showed no interest.

Well fast forward 3 weeks or so and NOW *I'M* the one that's interested in her, and showing it off allot, she knows I am. But now she acts like she's not interested, so wtf, is she trying to play hard to get???

Apparently so, I am growing tired of it too. I have now learned that you do not show interest so excessively, I guarantee if I start acting like I dont care, then she will act interested again and then we can get somewhere. It's all crazy little game, I dunno what I'm gonna do next, HMMMMMMM.

Oh, and I know she's still interested in me cause I ALWAYS catch her staring, but she's trying to hide it now

She is so see-through

 

[Jimbo2k]

Originally posted by el_guerrero
Apparently so, I am growing tired of it too. I have now learned that you do not show interest so excessively, I guarantee if I start acting like I dont care, then she will act interested again and then we can get somewhere. It's all crazy little game, I dunno what I'm gonna do next, HMMMMMMM.

You answered your own question there. Go back to ignoring her. I had this same situation with a chick who was interested in me, I noticed it, decided to go back to ignoring her, then she asked me to homecoming and we ended up dating for 6 months.

 

[Craig Reeves]

Look, stop just beating around the bush and trying to play this little game, and get down to business.

Obviously, you like her so next time you see her, after class, just go up to her and get her email and work from there. Simple.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

Re: Re: lost of interest? A game?

Originally posted by Jimbo2k
You answered your own question there. Go back to ignoring her. I had this same situation with a chick who was interested in me, I noticed it, decided to go back to ignoring her, then she asked me to homecoming and we ended up dating for 6 months.

Uhhhhh........ no

That is retarded, waiting for the chick to make the move will 9/10 have you out in the cold. You played games and she lost interest in you or got hurt, and decided to quit.

You doing it back to her gives her ALL OF THE CONTROL. I don't like relationships to be about power as much as the next guy, but don't give all the power to chicks, they don't know what to do with it, TRUST ME! Instead of doing the staring game for days and days, (it can go on forever if you don't make a move cuz the chick won't) go up and get close to her and start kinoing.


P.S. Welcome to sosuave el_guerrero, read up on the bible and pm me if you need any help.