"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey well this hb 9 is into me. Today is Band Camp for marching band and she tries to stand next to me hoping I say something ( I usually dont say much still an RAFC/AFC) and today during lunch she sat in the same chair that I was sitting on. She is a Senior and now I am a Sophmore. I knew her from last year. And that was when I was an AFC but was kinda succesful until she went out with someone else other than me.She is not as loud as some other girls, but more mysterious. she keeps looking at me and well I usualy smile and have her break eye contact. Well I have 1 and a 1/2 hours before I see her again and Im kinda lost. I dont know what the next step is. I use kino but still lost. If you have any advise it would help.

And dont bash on me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wait is she older than you?. Im from Australia we dont have that whole sophmore bullsh*t.

Ninja out
 
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What can we tell you in this short amount of time that's going to help?

You have to lead the interaction, dude.

Don't ASK, just DO. (But by no means FORCE or PUSH.)

Lead the interaction into whatever the hell you want, where ever the heck you want.

Take her to a park, up the kino, and make out with her after a while.
 
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Because she is older you must dominate her. Run up to her naked and slap her on the face with your penis.

Ninja out
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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