Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
gl man.Ice882 said:good sh*t. I'm looking to lose my tomorrow with this girl HB6.5. Hopefully I'll have a good story to tell tomorrow night!!!
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Sure bro.Five To One said:congrats.
care to give us the low down?
Read the above. I just want to let it out because my hard work finally paid off...San Jose California said:That's the story I wanna hear. It sucks that most people are too lazy to type stories. They just brag.
Gonna fvck her again soonDaddy The Pimp said:COOOOOL MAN.
Once it starts it will never stop. Good luck.
Mine was a HB 8. Big tits and nice ass.Ice882 said:good sh*t. I'm looking to lose my tomorrow with this girl HB6.5. Hopefully I'll have a good story to tell tomorrow night!!!
Actually , there is a lot of value in this post. You can learn alot. I started my series on from opening to closing , and when the time comes ill break down what you did and ill write on how to get past LMR. Its so fvcking easy. All it takes is hmm ok hun , im not doing anything while pulling away her shirt. STOP IT . ok love , ill stop it , ill give you more time while pulling her pants off.It's-Me said:Sure bro.
I started talking to her at a parade. I got her and her friend to come and drink with my friends and I. We have a few beers in a dark corner, and I start making it out. She's really turned on and i start feeling her. Than, I tell the whole group I'm gonna borrow her for a second and I go find another dark corner near by. I start making out hard core on the wall with her and pound her on the wall. She's extremely turned on and I tell her to suck my d1ck. She goes down on me. I chill with her a bit after until my friend drives me home.
Few days later, call her up and I tell her that we should chill. I had an empty house so I had her come over. Now she tells me that she's only here to chill and not to hook up (sh1t test). I'm cool with it and we watch TV for a bit. I finally start making out with her. I make out with her for a while and than I take her top off. I got a lot of resistance for taking off the bra, because she said: "We shouldn't be doing this, I'm just here to chill". I kept saying: "I understand", kiss her more, and try to take it off again (persistence is the key). Next I get her pants off, and the rest is history
It took me a hell of a long time to get her naked, but I was persistent.
Read the above. I just want to let it out because my hard work finally paid off...
That's good. But I'm not competing with you bud. Besides, she's only one of my plates. I've got 5 chicks spinning. One 6.5, one 7.5, one 8, and two 9's.It's-Me said:Mine was a HB 8. Big tits and nice ass.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.