"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Lost my job due to LGBT

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This is a TRADE job.

Apparently, one of the co-workers whom I work with ratted on me and said that I find Lesbians 'unsettling' to the 'manager'. There was one lezbrained coworker who was giving me 'advice', more like nagging and shaming on how to get my wife pregnant. I made a comment to another co-worker about how I found lesbians opinionated and unsettling and that I was sort of uncomfortable around her.

Fast forward one week,

Lost my job. 0 tolerance policy is in effect for any comments about a persons sexual orientation even if it wasn't directed at her. Ugh. for this reason, China is still better than Canada, despite the pollution and bad food, I can still be a man and have a normal conversation without fear of losing my job. The last time I ever work directly with ANY woman... the person who ratted me out was a sex starved, 54 y/o male, Caucasian, white knight married to a fat *****... should never have said anything, stupid on me, thought I could at least trust a tradesman.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There was one lezbrained coworker who was giving me 'advice', more like nagging and shaming on how to get my wife pregnant.
You should turn this into the management too, if for nothing else, peace of mind.

The last time I ever work directly with ANY woman... the person who ratted me out was a sex starved, 54 y/o male, Caucasian, white knight married to a fat *****... should never have said anything, stupid on me, thought I could at least trust a tradesman.
That's something, isn't it? It's like that many times. It isn't the actual allegedly oppressed person who gets offended.
 

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The management is an obese woman, the owner is controlled by her and the female office triad. She was fully aware of what happened as she was the one who broke the good news. There is no fight in this, the men of the company are complete white knights in every regard, I can't do anything.

My experience thus far has been that even Canada's tradesmen are full on white knight cucks now. I fear this country is fvcked beyond help. I have yet to meet a PUA or anyone possessing any men's related forum expertise out in the wild.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Damn LiveFreeX man, very sorry to hear this. More proof right here that the best thing for us all is to treat women like sleeping zombies and make sure we don't wake them by minimizing our contact especially at work. I sure had my wakeup call earlier this week with a cvnt jepordizing my job that I know you read. I was lucky. I would agree with you, one would think a trade position wouldn't be as dangerous as an office. This sh|t is just sick and out of control.
 

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Yep Ontario, beware. Here, as a man, I have no rights, I'd forgotten that. I suppose I should identify as a transgender woman to get any kind of fair trial. Anything written by the government only applies to the far left.

The only way I could even claim I'm a man with any sort of belief system would be if I converted to Islam... then my government would do their best to get me a house, a job and funding for any children I decided to have.

My grandfather lost 2 brothers in WW2 for this country. Canada, now:

 
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I'm not worried or anything, I got on with a new place today, I just thought it was a bum rap cause it was with a company working on equipment that I actually like. The owner is a Muslim, so I don't think we will be having any of those issues come up again. I'm sort of surprised at them actually, maybe they expected me to apologize and beg for my job back... luckily all the boomers are retiring and there are tons of vacancies opening up for trades people. I'd hate not to have a skillset right now and have to put up with sh1t like that with no other options available. People sort of expect trades guys to be lazy fvck ups ,I guess, so it won't hurt my rep at all. The job market must be an absolute nightmare for IT and office people though.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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After reading this post that sh1t is just sickening to read.

How the hell can somebody be so damn wicked to force a man out of his job for having an opinion. That white knight sounds like he kisses a girls feet at any chance he can get. Men like that are so damn pathetic. They need to grab their balls for once and be real men instead of being ass-kissers.

I'm sorry that you lost your job. Society is definitely fvcked today. Good luck with your next job.

I'm not at a working age yet, but from all these stories on SS I'm getting that I should be careful in the future if I work with them.
 

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luckily all the boomers are retiring and there are tons of vacancies opening up for trades people.
This is the reality of today's workforce. The trend is only going to continue. I can honestly see some workplaces working themselves into non-existence by requiring college diplomas or university degrees to get the job. Workplaces will eventually be forced to offer on-the-job training if they're going to remain in business. If they don't do this, their companies will die due to the lack of people to fill the jobs of the baby boomers.

The job market must be an absolute nightmare for IT and office people though.
That market is highly over-saturated. Everybody's still going with the idea that "computer are the future" and droves of people are getting into that line of work. Companies are very top-heavy due to the amount of Admin running the place. Some of those top-heavy companies are going to fall over because the Admin will ensure their pockets are lined, but the actual workers are trimmed down. Going cheap on the workers is like cutting legs off a table. The admin will eventually have nobody to make their money and the business will collapse.

We're going to see some interesting changes in the business world within the next few decades.
 

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Yep Ontario, beware. Here, as a man, I have no rights, I'd forgotten that. I suppose I should identify as a transgender woman to get any kind of fair trial. Anything written by the government only applies to the far left.

The only way I could even claim I'm a man with any sort of belief system would be if I converted to Islam... then my government would do their best to get me a house, a job and funding for any children I decided to have.

My grandfather lost 2 brothers in WW2 for this country. Canada, now:
http://www.cbc.ca/news/politics/roy...uestions-of-sexual-consent-educator-1.3083831

There is at least a little bit of a backlash to this movement in the military. I remember sitting through harassment briefings for 5 years at RMC and after the first couple times there became real resistance. Not only were they taking away our free time on our weekends, but some of the guys started piping in and asking direct challenging questions to the presenters etc. A lot of guys were outraged that none of the presenters or superior officers would acknowledge that women can rape men too.

Other than that though, I can confirm that the military is about as blue pill as you can get.
 

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I'm currently in a technical school for Law Enforcement and we had to take a sexual harassment class because one of the girls there was sexually harassed.

My teacher and superior said that we should be ashamed because it makes our program look bad but honestly, I was more annoyed that we all got punished for a dude not knowing how to escalate.

The presentation was awful by the way. It was about an hour and a half long and it was being presented by a woman. Each slide was basically directed towards males and she even had us give our opinion on a situation that was 'necessary for physical contact' by moving around the room. I just sat there in the middle which was undecided.

She and everyone gave me a funny look but I honestly didn't, and still don't, have time for that bullshvt. I'm enrolled to be a cop not knowing when to slap a girls *ss, I have SS for that.

We have to verbally ask if it's okay to touch a girl in any way. Nothing changed ever since, I still use kino and flirt casually without any complaints. It's kind of like racism or sexism, nobody cares until it's brought up.
 

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I'm currently in a technical school for Law Enforcement and we had to take a sexual harassment class because one of the girls there was sexually harassed.

My teacher and superior said that we should be ashamed because it makes our program look bad but honestly, I was more annoyed that we all got punished for a dude not knowing how to escalate.

The presentation was awful by the way. It was about an hour and a half long and it was being presented by a woman. Each slide was basically directed towards males and she even had us give our opinion on a situation that was 'necessary for physical contact' by moving around the room. I just sat there in the middle which was undecided.

She and everyone gave me a funny look but I honestly didn't, and still don't, have time for that bullshvt. I'm enrolled to be a cop not knowing when to slap a girls *ss, I have SS for that.

We have to verbally ask if it's okay to touch a girl in any way. Nothing changed ever since, I still use kino and flirt casually without any complaints. It's kind of like racism or sexism, nobody cares until it's brought up.
In the military the two most common "classes" we had were sexual harassment and suicide awareness. Let that sink in.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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In the military the two most common "classes" we had were sexual harassment and suicide awareness. Let that sink in.
Why suicide awareness? Seems a little odd... I mean maybe for the people who see combat but for everyone?
 

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Why suicide awareness? Seems a little odd... I mean maybe for the people who see combat but for everyone?
Suicide is the main cause of death in the marines, more than combat. I think for the other branches also.
 

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Suicide is the main cause of death in the marines, more than combat. I think for the other branches also.
Then again I wasn't a pog, so idk if they received the same frequency of those two classes. I had both once a month.
 

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"The management is an obese woman, the owner is controlled by her and the female office triad." <-That is your problem... I work around men, all men. It is the only work environment a person like me can exist in. The guys joke around, stay crass things and jokes all the time, and nobody has a problem about it. Nobody has hurt feelings... Heck I swear at my own boss and he calls me "funnyfarm fggt".
It is like that scene from Gran Torino:
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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