"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lost my girlfriend because i don't have a lot of money

tihash

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bombtrack2007 said:
She wants nice, expensive things. She wants a nice apartment in the city. She wants to go on expensive vacations. She likes to go out a lot...go to AC, the clubs, the bar, wants to go out to nice dinners. She wants to do that kind of stuff all the time...she wants a Sex in the City kind of life, it seems.

but anways...she once told me that if we were married, she would be upset with me if my job didn't allow me the financial capability to buy our kids brand new cars as opposed to used ones.

"Whats wrong with a used car? they don't need a new car." i say

She responds with, "It's not about needing it, it's about wanting it. i want to give our kids new cars and i want to be with someone who wants the same."
What is kinda funny is that this dumb biotch will NEVER be able to buy her kids new cars because she is spending all of her money on the clubs, bars, and nice dinners. To have money, you need to (1) make money and (2) not spend what you make.

Good riddance to this dumb slut.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Bombtrack, this girl sounds very superficial to me and not worth any more time. You need to tell her to take a hike. I agree with you almost 100% and there is nothing wrong with the way you're thinking.

However, don't get me wrong. In our society it is important to have a drive to achieve and succeed financially, those who don't have this drive get left in the dust. But hey, if you can live comfortably and you're happy with your job keep on keepin on my man!
 

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Looks fade, but being a gold digging wh-re is forever. Men who marry women like this have to be careful. These women will lose their looks, but they'll keep on spending all the man's money. When or if they get divorced, they'll try to get the biggest divorce and alimony settlement they can. Then they'll continue to spend their exes money, all the while looking for another rich man to pay for all their sh!t. If you had sex with her a few times when she was young but were spared the lifetime of having your pocket picked by the woman while her looks diminish, then you're good to go.
 

Die Hard

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bombtrack2007 said:
I just wish my love was enough for her.
Well, I wish I could return to my mother's womb...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BBbardot

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sad reality:(
well she didn't love you then...
try to find a girl that is not materialistic or really love you very much, good luck with either of these.
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