"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Lost my game?

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How can this be possible? I landed a hb8 who owns a nice car, rich gave me gifts everything left letters, really sweet and really loved me. her friends loved me (literally) and even her parents and brothers.

now i let it slide, gave time for my career. she continued her studies, eventually broke up.

me being the confident self put the game down, stopped for a while earned money doing marketing and business also focused on gym and self improvement

i now look alot better (trust me), bigger muscles, lost fat. i bought my very first rolex watch (+points for attraction?)

had custom made suits, bought some by armani, as in custom tailored suits that look really nice imo... :)

anyway, just as i think im ready to jump back in the game.....

BAM...

Well. Ofcourse I got better chances with cold approaches, trust me. It was so much better!

But getting rapport and their #'s, not a problem!

But the problem lies here.....................

When we get together they seem so uncomfortable! I dont know why?? Maybe they are thinking im too good for them? Or what am I doing hanging with them? IDK if thats it or whatever... Whatever it is, its making them uncomfortable/akward!

In the past, i didnt have this prob.. I used to get along.

Any ideas on why my dates recently come out very akward? I'm still aiming for the HB7-8.5's... i dont know whats changed, im still the same person, only with better stuff and a better body, more confidence...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How quick are you # closing these chicks? I find when I # close within five minutes of meeting them that it takes about 30 minutes or so on the date to get them to "warm up".
 

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Less than 5 minutes, sometimes i stay and dance with them for 5 more... then bail to another target........ talk to them later and so on
 

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Hmm do they stay uncomfortable the whole time they are around you? Or is it just when they first are around you?
 

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^ Just the begining, sometimes also during.. it kind of comes and goes? idk.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Meh don't worry about it. Its normal. Thats what happens when you go out with women who you have only known for 5 minutes and are out with them. Its up to you to make them feel comfortable around you.

Example; Chick comes into my job,I # close in 5 minutes,go out with her two nights later. She gets in my car,body language points away from me,30 minutes into date after some rapport she has mixed body language,1.5hour later she already said she wants to meet my family,3 hours later her tongue was down my mouth.
 
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