"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lost my game?

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How can this be possible? I landed a hb8 who owns a nice car, rich gave me gifts everything left letters, really sweet and really loved me. her friends loved me (literally) and even her parents and brothers.

now i let it slide, gave time for my career. she continued her studies, eventually broke up.

me being the confident self put the game down, stopped for a while earned money doing marketing and business also focused on gym and self improvement

i now look alot better (trust me), bigger muscles, lost fat. i bought my very first rolex watch (+points for attraction?)

had custom made suits, bought some by armani, as in custom tailored suits that look really nice imo... :)

anyway, just as i think im ready to jump back in the game.....

BAM...

Well. Ofcourse I got better chances with cold approaches, trust me. It was so much better!

But getting rapport and their #'s, not a problem!

But the problem lies here.....................

When we get together they seem so uncomfortable! I dont know why?? Maybe they are thinking im too good for them? Or what am I doing hanging with them? IDK if thats it or whatever... Whatever it is, its making them uncomfortable/akward!

In the past, i didnt have this prob.. I used to get along.

Any ideas on why my dates recently come out very akward? I'm still aiming for the HB7-8.5's... i dont know whats changed, im still the same person, only with better stuff and a better body, more confidence...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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How quick are you # closing these chicks? I find when I # close within five minutes of meeting them that it takes about 30 minutes or so on the date to get them to "warm up".
 

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Less than 5 minutes, sometimes i stay and dance with them for 5 more... then bail to another target........ talk to them later and so on
 

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Hmm do they stay uncomfortable the whole time they are around you? Or is it just when they first are around you?
 

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^ Just the begining, sometimes also during.. it kind of comes and goes? idk.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Meh don't worry about it. Its normal. Thats what happens when you go out with women who you have only known for 5 minutes and are out with them. Its up to you to make them feel comfortable around you.

Example; Chick comes into my job,I # close in 5 minutes,go out with her two nights later. She gets in my car,body language points away from me,30 minutes into date after some rapport she has mixed body language,1.5hour later she already said she wants to meet my family,3 hours later her tongue was down my mouth.
 
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