"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lost my chance to a threesome! Can I make it happen again?

Coiffio

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So last night, my FWB was hanging out at this bar with her girlfriend. I got off of work late and she invited me to come over afterwards.

I got to the bar and my FWB and her friend are dancing all over eachother. I hadn't seen her friend in a while, so when I saw her she gave me a big hug. I suggested we all go out to the patio and chill out, since it was pretty hot inside and pretty cool outside.

We go outside, get a drink, and me, my FWB and her girlfriend are all just catching up and chilling. My FWB's friend then suddenly downs her drink in one gulp, pulls my FWB away and starts whispering in her ear, all the while, glancing and smiling at me. Then she breaks away and goes to the bar.

That's when my FWB drops the bomb on me.

"She wants to have a threesome with us." This didn't register with me right away.

I was like "Really? She wants to have a threesome with us?" And my FWB said "Yes." It still wasn't entirely clicking with me, it was still sinking in. I asked, "Tonight?" And my FWB said "Yeah," and I asked "And... you're okay with this?"

And my FWB just says "Yeah." So in my mind was like "YES! AWWWWESOME!" but I just hid my excitement and said "cool."

So me and my FWB are dancing by ourselves, and I'm glancing at her friend who's at the bar. Then, I see this guy walk up to her and starts chatting her up. I think "no big deal" and me and my FWB just keep doing our thing, but 5 minutes later, I found her friend and the new guy dancing and grinding all over eachother and making out. A minute or so later, the dude just leads her completely out of the bar.

A few minutes later, my FWB realizes her friend is missing and calls her. After they chat on the phone, she tells me, "Sorry, she went home with someone else." I played it cool and said, "Oh well, whatever," but in my mind I was like, "GODDAMMIT! THERE GOES MY THREESOME!"

Eitherway, me and my FWB had a pretty wild night on our own.

Granted, they had been drinking before, but do you think there's a chance I can still score a threesome with my FWB and her friend? Is there anyway to suggest and purposefully arrange it to happen or will that come on as too strong?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ridingthelightning

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You should be able to. I wouldn't bring it up, just let it happen again.
 
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