Hey guys. Have not been on in a while, as i have lost my motivation for meeting women. This is just a recent realisation for me, as i have been doing other things.
I should define that closely.
During the week i am meeting a girl for cofee. I've known her for a month or so and have been pursuing other women, and just generally having fun with women.
I have not been layed in a month tho. I have been busy learning the guitar and focussing on work.
I am planning my time to do things, like to go the gym, practice guitar, sometimes at night i can't get to sleep, i can't find a routine that suits me and i work at night for 8 hours each night.
Meeting this one girl for coffee, i know how to 'mack' girls for want of a better expression...she had a bf when i asked her out and while she said she was interested before i had missed the boat because i was focussing on other things, anyway when i spoke to her during that time, i was still my usual self i didnt give a stuff that she had a bf....and it showed because now she is single again and has asked me out.
I think i am still intermediate in this stuff. I do like this girl. Last time i went out on a real date with a girl we ended up sleeping together that night. And that was the time when i had to deal with several other guys on the date trying to take over 'my pasture'.
Thing is, i use all these new found skills i have learnt pretty well, and i integrate them into all i do now. This site has changed me, along with david d and doc love.
However, i just dont feel it anymore. This one girl is meant to be ringing me back one weekday coming to meet for cofee. She left me a message saying first her phone number, then that she would love to meet me and if its ok we could go for coffee. Turns out she wants to meet during the week on one of her days off.
Thats all very fine, however, i am bored with the prospect of going through all this hoo-lah, maybe its the girl, i dont know. I know i want to bang her, but i am bored with the process....
i put it down to lost motivation, and that is bad. If it was a ' ive got too much to do' type thing, that would be ok, however i am just not interested....i have been chasing and shagging girls for the past 18 months after breaking up with a long time gf. You'd think i'd be raring to go. I havnt been clubbing in 6 months and i still find it easy to get women.
what are some of the things we can do to regain the enthusiasm?
is there some kind of sexy music you guys listen to and if so what are some of the groups/singers?
I should define that closely.
During the week i am meeting a girl for cofee. I've known her for a month or so and have been pursuing other women, and just generally having fun with women.
I have not been layed in a month tho. I have been busy learning the guitar and focussing on work.
I am planning my time to do things, like to go the gym, practice guitar, sometimes at night i can't get to sleep, i can't find a routine that suits me and i work at night for 8 hours each night.
Meeting this one girl for coffee, i know how to 'mack' girls for want of a better expression...she had a bf when i asked her out and while she said she was interested before i had missed the boat because i was focussing on other things, anyway when i spoke to her during that time, i was still my usual self i didnt give a stuff that she had a bf....and it showed because now she is single again and has asked me out.
I think i am still intermediate in this stuff. I do like this girl. Last time i went out on a real date with a girl we ended up sleeping together that night. And that was the time when i had to deal with several other guys on the date trying to take over 'my pasture'.
Thing is, i use all these new found skills i have learnt pretty well, and i integrate them into all i do now. This site has changed me, along with david d and doc love.
However, i just dont feel it anymore. This one girl is meant to be ringing me back one weekday coming to meet for cofee. She left me a message saying first her phone number, then that she would love to meet me and if its ok we could go for coffee. Turns out she wants to meet during the week on one of her days off.
Thats all very fine, however, i am bored with the prospect of going through all this hoo-lah, maybe its the girl, i dont know. I know i want to bang her, but i am bored with the process....
i put it down to lost motivation, and that is bad. If it was a ' ive got too much to do' type thing, that would be ok, however i am just not interested....i have been chasing and shagging girls for the past 18 months after breaking up with a long time gf. You'd think i'd be raring to go. I havnt been clubbing in 6 months and i still find it easy to get women.
what are some of the things we can do to regain the enthusiasm?
is there some kind of sexy music you guys listen to and if so what are some of the groups/singers?
lol, quiet the predicament. Anyone who can offer us some advice, or has been through a similar phase I will be happy