"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lost interest in SEX!!!!

frivolousz21

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haha...JK

damn..NEVER!!

but I lost an interest in women...why? when I gained my confidence and self-identity..I NO LONGER NEEDED OR THOUGHT I NEEDED A WOMEN TO MAKE ME HAPPY.

AND WALA..IM MAKING MORE MONEY, HAVING MORE FUN, AND MEETING MORE WOMEN..THEN BAM I MET A GOOD ONE IM DATING.


SO AS IVE SAID OVER AND OVER AND OVER..ITS ABOUT




YOU.



INNER GAME


CHRISDIESEL82 thats my Halo 2 name

frivolousz21 AIM


ibleedblue47 Yahoo


im out of here if you ever need to talk say whats up. if u play halo..or ESPN baseball look me up.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Vincent

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I have no idea where this should go but it doesn't seem like DJD.

Lets try anything else...
 

DeathDealer

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Yo YO YO Wassup DJ'S I'm leaving SOSUAVE cause I think I'm better than all of you!

If you were a DJ, You'd leave quietly and not make a sound but instead you had to be melodramatic about it.
 

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Originally posted by DeathDealer
Yo YO YO Wassup DJ'S I'm leaving SOSUAVE cause I think I'm better than all of you!

If you were a DJ, You'd leave quietly and not make a sound but instead you had to be melodramatic about it.
I like how you started off this post with "YO YO YO" followed by a narcissistic comment. Then, in the following "paragraph," you say "If you were a DJ, you'd leave quietly."

Oh, the irony.
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
but I lost an interest in women...why? when I gained my confidence and self-identity..I NO LONGER NEEDED OR THOUGHT I NEEDED A WOMEN TO MAKE ME HAPPY.
nah...i rekin you just turned gay:p
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jonny football hero

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Re: Re: Lost interest in SEX!!!!

Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
nah...i rekin you just turned gay:p
Least he gets it......smart-arse.
 
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