"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lost interest in me ?

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ok so I met a hb8 on friday night she is 18

we met at show

talked for a few minutes

number closed her

long story short

she was texting me every 5 minutes saturday ...

and today sunday I got zip, zero

so far I have gotten nothing all day no phone calls no txting ...

I usually wait for the 3 day call period.

she txted me on saturday something about a show

and I texted her back like 20minutes later

so I ended the txt conversation ...

would I seem needy if I txt her back saying hey what happend ?

or call saying that ?

or should I just wait until she sends me back , a signal .

I have never had this happen to me b4 , so I don't know how to fight back here...



all opinions are welcome and suggestions.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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she thinks ur probably not that interested...


call her up if you like her... offer her to hang out... bottom line is, there are no clear cut rules..
 
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oh kool thanks, I usually see debates on here about the 3 day rule...

so I saw how u posted about there being no clear cut rules...

I guess it just really matters what kinda person you are

I am a 3 days waiting guy , even tho some folks in here might disagree ...

i'll just call her ... thats what I am going to do ...
 
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