"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lost in Translation

Conquer

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When a women says you don't have to get me anything. What does she really mean?

*This happens specially during the holiday season. My guess is she actually really hopes you get her something or she will be totally bummed.*

But thats just my logic....
anyone else hearing this lately?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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intrextrovert

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Exactly what it says. She's not telling you not to get her anything. She wants something, but no pressure.

Get something small and meaningfull/something you took a bit of time to make/get
 

bigjohnson

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She wants you to make her feel like the princess she imagines she is and not the whore she tends to act like.
 
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