"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Lost her phone and all her numbers....

scorpio1138

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Does this ever really happen? I think not from what I've learned here.

A woman's phone is her lifeline.

I texted this girl I've been out with a few times. Have not seen her in a month or so. I text her last night to see if she wants to hang out on saturday.

she replies: I'm sorry, who is this? I got a new phone and lost all of my phone numbers.

I believed right off the bat she deleted my number so I didn't reply. Before I learned what I've learned here I would have believed her.

NEXT!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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terran2k

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umm well if I lost my phone and didn't have a backup of my contacts (which has happened) and some random someone texted me, I'd have to ask who is it as well.
so she could very well be telling you the truth. But you went with some scenerio your brain made up.
 

scorpio1138

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the last time she texted me, she wanted me to come visit her at the club.
(she's a stripper) and didn't respond when I said no thanks and counter-offered to have drinks the following friday.

I was seeing if I could get some tail one more time. :)

no loss. I made plans with another plate for tomorrow.
 

chance

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hahaha.. ive had that excuse many times before. its hard to believe a girl when she says it these days.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Chromeo

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I know girls who constantly lose their phones. I think this one girl I was dating went thru 3 while we were going out. Ive heard of girls losing their phones, dropping them, spilling wine on them, dropping them in toilets even pissing the bed and ruining them.

of course daddy or their bf buy them a new one.

Just tell her who you are and feel it out, kinda 50/50
 
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horaholic

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Chicks lose/break their phones all the time. Especially now with Iphones that break easily. I think about once a week, I see a "I need your numbers" bulliten on FB or myspace, and its usually chicks, cuz, well, their arent the brightest,and do stupid shyt to their phones.

If she didnt want to talk to you, she wouldnt have even answered.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Cinamon

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Yeah, my i phone didnt sync properly and crashed and i lost all my contacts. As much as i love it to bits, its flawed immensely.
 

Joe Stud

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You spend time on this forum. You are a "student of the sport" of sarging chicks. You have a hot lead (since you have banged her before). So dont let a little detail like this cause you to give up so easily. Go get her!
 

Forty0ztoFreedom

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That is my go-to line if someone I deleted texts/calls. Guess I better come up with something better.
 
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