Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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lost faith in woman but then this one shows up

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very, very nice girl. she always is the last one to sit, so everyone gets a seat before her, and most of the time, she ends up standing. since there are an odd number of people in my lab, she offers to work alone. she's also very tiny and yet very confident and mature in the way she carries herself. it's difficult not to notice this girl.

she is "seeing someone" so she says. not sure if it's serious, but she doesn't seem like the fickle type. should i just ignore her? we have lab for several hours once a week together. will be difficult, but i'll just keep conversation civil.

any fellas encounter a girl this nice? i've never met one myself, so she's a surprise. is it just a fake front at school? and she's just like the rest of 'em?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"very very nice girl"

"should I ignore her?"

Are you 10?
 
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Be honest to yourself and go for what you want. If you really want to know if she is truly a "nice girl" there is only one way to do it. Make your life interesting and flirt with this girl!
 
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BlackEricNorthman said:
Be honest to yourself and go for what you want. If you really want to know if she is truly a "nice girl" there is only one way to do it. Make your life interesting and flirt with this girl!
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Took the words right from my mouth.

Start flirting with her. You don't know this guy, he isn't your friend.. so it's game on. You can now test how much of a "good girl" she really is.

-Scars
 
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Alright. Thanks fellas. Will proceed as it is with this one then. Not going to stop dating other girls (nothing serious, and they're all aware) in the meanwhile though.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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