Ok so ive known this asian girl for about 3 or 4 month now but really only seen her like 4 time and 1 date, the others were just from party and friends gathering. It all started at a pool place and ive met her thru a friend, she was flirting with me and what not. Afterward i come home and went on my msn, she was on her friends msn and ask me if i miss her and if i like anyone on the meeting (5 girls and only me) later in the week she would called me a few times.
On christmas we got together for a party, i gave her a gift and she she gave me a hug and a kiss on the cheek. We danced, i drove her home and ask her if she wants to see fireworks on newyear. This is where i fuc k up, i was busy with some stuff and dint even notice that i had a cell so my cell was in the car for 5 days and i missed 11 call, i think atleast 7 calls was from her! after that she went away for work for 10 days.
When she got back, i called her and ask to go out but she denied it like 3 times on diffrent days saying shes busy but she still bought me a gift for my birthday but she gave it to her friend to give it to me! then later on in the week she wants me to come with her looking for some furnature using my car so the whole day we were out shopping for TV and VCR n shiet, this isnt really like a date, its more like using me to drive her to buy stuff.
Next week she called me out to go to her party but she called me last minute and i had to go to my friend b-day party so i cancel on her, after that when i called again she wasnt too happy with me. I called a few more times during a few weeks using my home phone but she warnt picking up. One day i was fed up with the BS and went to her place wanting to tell her straight up that i like her but if she dont feel the same then i wont contact her anymore. The reason i did this is not because i want closure and I wasnt gonna let this go, either it go down hard or it works. She wasnt home so i called again. She finally called me back and act as if nothing happened, we setup for a morning date at 10 AM because she had to go to work later on that night. She also said she dint want to call me before because she was always working late and dint want to wake me up, she also mention shes out partying with a guy?
It is morning, am all dressup rightnow waiting for her to call. I called her up this morning an hour before so she can get ready. She picks up and was talking GIBBERISH! i couldn understand wtf she was saying because she just awoke she said she'll call me later but its 10:40 now and she hasnt called back.
Yes i know all the signs pointing to she lost intrest, maybe its because i messup on many occasion but when i call she still acting like she was intrest. Should i just move on? i really want closure on this. She either put me down HARD or we go out, i really dont want to be confuse and wasting my time.
On christmas we got together for a party, i gave her a gift and she she gave me a hug and a kiss on the cheek. We danced, i drove her home and ask her if she wants to see fireworks on newyear. This is where i fuc k up, i was busy with some stuff and dint even notice that i had a cell so my cell was in the car for 5 days and i missed 11 call, i think atleast 7 calls was from her! after that she went away for work for 10 days.
When she got back, i called her and ask to go out but she denied it like 3 times on diffrent days saying shes busy but she still bought me a gift for my birthday but she gave it to her friend to give it to me! then later on in the week she wants me to come with her looking for some furnature using my car so the whole day we were out shopping for TV and VCR n shiet, this isnt really like a date, its more like using me to drive her to buy stuff.
Next week she called me out to go to her party but she called me last minute and i had to go to my friend b-day party so i cancel on her, after that when i called again she wasnt too happy with me. I called a few more times during a few weeks using my home phone but she warnt picking up. One day i was fed up with the BS and went to her place wanting to tell her straight up that i like her but if she dont feel the same then i wont contact her anymore. The reason i did this is not because i want closure and I wasnt gonna let this go, either it go down hard or it works. She wasnt home so i called again. She finally called me back and act as if nothing happened, we setup for a morning date at 10 AM because she had to go to work later on that night. She also said she dint want to call me before because she was always working late and dint want to wake me up, she also mention shes out partying with a guy?
It is morning, am all dressup rightnow waiting for her to call. I called her up this morning an hour before so she can get ready. She picks up and was talking GIBBERISH! i couldn understand wtf she was saying because she just awoke she said she'll call me later but its 10:40 now and she hasnt called back.
Yes i know all the signs pointing to she lost intrest, maybe its because i messup on many occasion but when i call she still acting like she was intrest. Should i just move on? i really want closure on this. She either put me down HARD or we go out, i really dont want to be confuse and wasting my time.