Lost all interest in people

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Dstructor

Don Juan

Oct 23, 2008

Huffman said:
But deep down, I do want to be social, I want to make more friends, I want to CARE again.

You ever felt that way?

Oh hell yes !

And you know what i realized after years (literally) of trying to make people to be closer to me and like me ?

I realized that unless i show myself the same treatment i enjoy from people i can't expect others to do it

How this relates to your dilemma ?
Well, you want to connect with people on an emotional level, Feel that trust and love and the you-can-relax-now feeling...you want to get to know people more and have fun with them

So ask yourself this; how well are you really connected to who you are IN THIS MOMENT and how much fun do you have by yourself ?

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.