IndianPlayboy
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As my first post, this has got to be a bit of a downer. Considering I feel I was somewhat of a damn good DJ over the last few years, this is definitely not a post I ever imagined I would have to make.
Things in my life have changed a lot lately, and I feel like I've lost a lot of confidence. In fact, I fear I've lost all of it.
Breakdown:
Now after reading that you probably think it was always like this. I'll tell you, before the moves, back in College (only 3 years ago), I was nexting women, and getting exactly what I wanted. Some saw me as rude, but I didn't give a ****. It was the hey-day, and I feel like I won't ever get it back.
You guys know the game the best. So that's why I'm reaching out for some opinions. Lay it on me.
Things in my life have changed a lot lately, and I feel like I've lost a lot of confidence. In fact, I fear I've lost all of it.
Breakdown:
Moved to the US from Canada right after college to live in a city on my own, without knowing anyone. Hard to meet women, have a circle of friends to hang with. Went from Mr Social in college to knowing very few people. That killed a year or so.
After finally settling and finding a group of people to hang with, as well as dating about 5-6 girls over the span of two years, moved back to Canada to realize a lot of close friends and chicks I was tagging years ago are hooked up long term.
When I date girls now, I feel like I'm changing myself to be more attractive to them. I hold back on neg hits, when I do try 'em they come off as mean, rather than funny. Every aspect of the skill I had on neg hits before seem to have left me.
Girls are seeing me as an AFC. They're asking me about other guys, telling me I'm such a good friend. It's a horrible, horrible nightmare coming alive.
I think I'm pushing it. My sources of confidence are depleting. Instead of living in a nice pad on my own, I'm back with my parents. I don't have the few female ego boosters I did before. It's not a pretty site.
Now after reading that you probably think it was always like this. I'll tell you, before the moves, back in College (only 3 years ago), I was nexting women, and getting exactly what I wanted. Some saw me as rude, but I didn't give a ****. It was the hey-day, and I feel like I won't ever get it back.
You guys know the game the best. So that's why I'm reaching out for some opinions. Lay it on me.