"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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lost a chance cause i was high

mrsoy

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haha so my budies house is parent free for a week so a bunch of us decided to go n smoke there. sure enough more people showed up and this girl who is a year older than me sat near me. she started out by saying "hey i remember you from last time (party)" blah blah but all i wanted to do was sit there and chill and not talk to anyone, especialy since i was in some ****ty hang around clothes, not a nice outfit. but she was playing with her hair,making eye contact, and giving off all the regular signs. she even hinted that she liked how i was so chill and laid back. anyway, fact of the matter is, pot is messing with my game and its obviously time to quit.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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tactic

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lesson:

don't do drugs
 

Pantera_man

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I can't tell you how many chances I've missed because I was burnt-out or paranoid from god damn weed. Certain types of weed make me ill-suited for intereaction with strangers or girls.

Basically, try not to smoke weed around girls unless it's with them. Smoking a joint can be a great way to meet people.

I find that weed is more like a mood amplifier, so don't smoke it unless your sh*t is together, don't hang around narcissists or untrustworthy people while high either.
 
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