TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
Should I not touch the whey protein since I've indulged so much?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Lost 40lbs on diet... this weeked, beers, steaks, and coney dogs.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Quiksilver
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Look at the big picture. One weekend won't make much of a difference.
Keep the protein shakes for sure, and stabilize your diet whenever you like. Just understand that beer, steak, and coney for one weekend won't do much for you in the long run as far as weight gain goes, so just enjoy it
Get back to the rhythm of your new lifestyle whenever you feel like it.
By the way, congrats! that is no easy feat.
Keep the protein shakes for sure, and stabilize your diet whenever you like. Just understand that beer, steak, and coney for one weekend won't do much for you in the long run as far as weight gain goes, so just enjoy it
Get back to the rhythm of your new lifestyle whenever you feel like it.
By the way, congrats! that is no easy feat.
celebrating the buck's big win, huh?
depends on how much you use whey -- you definitely still want it for that big kick of protein right after a lifting session and maybe before/during if that's your thing. otherwise, your body might have plenty of calories laying around to get you through the week..... but generally you want to stick to your plan when you're on it, and treat vacations from it as vacations. one weekend can't kill all your hard work, just get back on track.
depends on how much you use whey -- you definitely still want it for that big kick of protein right after a lifting session and maybe before/during if that's your thing. otherwise, your body might have plenty of calories laying around to get you through the week..... but generally you want to stick to your plan when you're on it, and treat vacations from it as vacations. one weekend can't kill all your hard work, just get back on track.
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protein always goes down no matter what.
the excess calories/carbs/fats won't hurt you, they'll do you good.
the excess calories/carbs/fats won't hurt you, they'll do you good.
TheLadiesMan
Master Don Juan
Thanks buds...
..and yes, celebrating a Bukeye win.
Tony's Coney Dogs...... yikes. Good, but you will pay the price... later.
..and yes, celebrating a Bukeye win.
Tony's Coney Dogs...... yikes. Good, but you will pay the price... later.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.