"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Loss of emotions/feelings

Unprez

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Rollo Tomassi said:
I don't think I need to re-explain how women tend to be ruled by their emotions; it's their Achilles Heel, don't let it become yours. You haven't lost the ability to feel emotion, you're simply experiencing hopelessness, despair maybe some exasperation and frustration too. Control it.
very true! sorta like kryptonite for woman but yet it is also a weapon then use, which is y woman always flirt , always give false hope to bring out the emotions of AFCs and bring them to their knees...i agree this is a great discussion and ultimately I think one of the biggest problems men face when faced with bad experiences ...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sodbuster

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As you age, it's easy to become jaded. The problem is that the more you experience,the less there is that is new and exciting. After the 1000th Pizza, it doesn't excite you like it did when you were 5. After sex a couple thousand times-can take it or leave it. 4 cruises are probably enough. Made six figures for the last 17 years-boring[I wouldn't like to make less though]

What I still enjoy is hunting-walking alone by myself with no people and no sounds except my breathing and footsteps. The sound of the wind blowing through the grass and my sharpened senses as I return to my primitive roots. If I had to work that hard, I'd change jobs. BUT I love it. It is my passion. You need to accept that things won't be as much fun as when you were a child. BUT find your passion and live for it.
 

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I can totally relate to what you're going through.

After my 4 years in college and being burned out from going to an Ivy League school I felt horrific depression. I thought it was my negative mindset but after a few months of recoopin I realized that it was a combination of abusing caffeine, aderall, not getting adequate sleep, working out sparsely and a not very healthy diet.

Pick up Anthony Robbin's book "Unlimited Power" and read the section on dieting, you'd be surprised at how the foods you eat and the way they affect your moods.

if you start a regular exercise regiment and eat VERY healthy I guarantee you it'll positive impact your mood
 
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