"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Loss Of Attraction?

612_Da_Playa

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I remember back in middle school where you would be shy and afraid to talk to girls and have that "tinkly" feeling inside. I don't have that "tinkly" feeling anymore. I don't know what the problem is. How can I get that strong attraction again? Does society's view affect thinking? Sexual images? Can anyone relate?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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haha I always thought it was a bad thing. Girls don't get me all riled up anymore. I'll be like, "Oh she has a big booty" and move on. Is that natural?
 

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Maybe your standards are going up? I only feel tinkly for HB8+...
 
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