"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Losing your cool

Bingo-Player

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Does anyone else on here get angry with women and they’re stupid little games , sometimes I loose my cool and feel as though nexting them isn’t enough and they need knocking down

A HB 8 I was spinning text me last night saying the following


“oh look my “ex boyfriend is on tv” ( it was some reality show they were interviewing him ) oh and by the way your also tweeting another guy that fancies me

I know she was totally looking for a reaction and I was about to go as far as blocking her number on my phone but I was so angry I felt this chick needed telling so I text back



“oh wow look at you and all your admirers perhaps you would like to see the list of mine ?”



I had a text back 15 mins later



“Sorry I didn’t mean it like thatL”



I sent her one back saying



“I don’t like stuff like that and im going to bed now”



No reply ive probably pissed her off a bit and I doubt il hear from her this weekend possibly ever again, I certaintly wont be making an ounce more of effort with this one

But it was worth it to knock the cheeky bint down a few pegs


Anyone got any similar experiences with HB 7 ,8s and so on ?


They seem to think that because they are hot they are immune to being nexted I honestly don’t know how any DJ with an ounce of self respect can put up with these games i don’t care how good the PU**AY is
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yes, but better to go ghost. confrontational texts rarely get you anywhere.
 

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ghost is always an option, just don't respond to stupid texts. Then remove yourself from her twitter.

Or you could throw out something along the lines of: "And?" or, "Is that why you texted me?".

Then when she responds with" Well, I thought it was interesting." you respond with a: "oh, well I was in the middle of something, I didn't know if there was anything else."

Try to come from the standpoint of what she is saying is pointless and has no meaning.
 

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Typical attentione wh0re behaviour. Personally, I see this as a red flag and it quite literally puts me off them so I don't get angry, I just give them less attention and go focus on someone else.

The problem with women like this is that they are such hard work and they flirt a lot and have the potential to be unfaithful and promiscuous. I've seen it many times before, so I usually steer clear.

If you still decide to pursue, just treat this behaviour with indifference, but start to show less interest.
 

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This is why I have such a low opinion of women. I have so much experience with them and their tiring BS. My opinion of them is so low at this point that I've lost the ability to feel intimidated or uncomfortable around them.

All women play games in one form or another. In other words: Women are not honest, straight forward, or consistent. They are extremely fickle. All men are aware of this on some level which is why so many men pander to women.. afraid of upsetting them or making them mad.

Think about that for a minute--> Why are most men afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing around an attractive woman? Because they know women are fickle and lack loyalty. They know a woman might discard them like trash on a whim.

In order to be immune to female games you have to be totally at peace with your values and beliefs. You really have to have a "this is me.. take it or leave it" attitude. Anything less is pedestalization of the female.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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@playerherman good points no woman should be able to take a man for a ride so easily yet they get away with it every single day


yea she is definitely an attention ***** she did actually text me last night..... twice

stupid stuff to try and get my attention i was in the cinema so i didn't reply until i got out

she was trying her hardest to get me into her frame but i just aint playing ball until the games stop

my opinion of women is at an all time low :yawn:
 

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PlayHer Man said:
This is why I have such a low opinion of women. I have so much experience with them and their tiring BS. My opinion of them is so low at this point that I've lost the ability to feel intimidated or uncomfortable around them.

All women play games in one form or another. In other words: Women are not honest, straight forward, or consistent. They are extremely fickle. All men are aware of this on some level which is why so many men pander to women.. afraid of upsetting them or making them mad.

Think about that for a minute--> Why are most men afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing around an attractive woman? Because they know women are fickle and lack loyalty. They know a woman might discard them like trash on a whim.

In order to be immune to female games you have to be totally at peace with your values and beliefs. You really have to have a "this is me.. take it or leave it" attitude. Anything less is pedestalization of the female.
BINGO......THUMBS UP
 

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When You Get Jerked Around By Women It Makes You See Them Very Differently .......dont Get Me Wrong I Have Known Some Fantastic Ladies And Still Do..........but They All Come With Issues , Problems , Past Problems , Insecuritys , Debt , The List Goes On.....for Me Personally Once I Get To A Place Where I Am No Longer Affected By What A Woman Says......she Could Say Or Do Anything She Wanted ........and It Just Doesnt Affect Me At All , The Only Problem With Me Being This Way Is I Shut Down Totally Towards Them...........not Sure If This Is A Good Thing .....but Everyone Is Different.........
 

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I never indulge women in things like this. I just categorize them differently from then on. A girl like this I would not take out anywhere and would be degraded to a booty call I will not take out in public, instead of being the girl I take out with my friends to have a good night out with a great group of people. I would not have answered that text either.

I don't really make character generalizations to sweeping groups of people. Like saying ALL women are like this. But this particular girl has earned her status and would have a hard time changing my perception of her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rightly or wrongly, I usually call them out on their bad behavior. The problem is that it's too exhausting... It's like trying to explain quantum physics to a three year old.

Ya can't win. But I feel that every time I call one out that's one more b!tch who learns that some men require consequences for their actions and words.

Like I said, though, the price to be paid is exhaustion if you really want to get her to understand that what she's doing is wrong.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
Rightly or wrongly, I usually call them out on their bad behavior. The problem is that it's too exhausting... It's like trying to explain quantum physics to a three year old.

Ya can't win. But I feel that every time I call one out that's one more b!tch who learns that some men require consequences for their actions and words.

Like I said, though, the price to be paid is exhaustion if you really want to get her to understand that what she's doing is wrong.
This.

I've said it before and I say again: There is no point in arguing with women and is a total waste of time and effort, but once you decide that you don't care what one does it certainly can be satisfying calling her out on her BS.
 
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