"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Losing wieght compatible with study?

Gubby

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I've decided to start taking DIESEL's advice on the cutting post, at least, the gist of it: cut 200cals every week for eight weeks or so. I don't work out, though I swim and/or cycle most days.

Well, I'm now getting hungry. I feel kinda lethargic. That'd be fine I guess, but I have some pretty important exams to be studying for in a few weeks and I want to be able to focus.

Is it worth continuing to diet or should I let it wait till after I've done the exams you think?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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flippinfreak

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Are you eating a proper diet?

If you just eat a lot of fruits and vegetables you shouldn't feellethargic at all
 

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Definately wait. You get unconcentrated and tired. Not good when you have exams your future might depend on.
 

fireguy

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Oh just saw your age. Maybe not future dependant exams, but still...good grades never hurt.
 
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