"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Losing weight -- where do I start?

Erasmus

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Hey all,
Well, I'm thinking it's about time that I get my body in order -- I'm sitting at 6 foot and 350 pounds. It's not quite as bad as you might think, I have a super broad and dense structure, and in highschool, at 250 pounds I had a very reasonable body-fat percentage, and looked totally normal.
I've grown since then, so my goal is to lose 90 pounds of fat, and put on 20 pounds of muscle. Of course, I know that the most important thing is specific, clear, goals on a certain time limit. But I have no idea what's a reasonable amount of time to expect to lose that much weight. Can anyone give me any kind of estimate? I just don't want to be way way off or anything.
Next, I don't really know where to start concerning diet and a workout plan. I've been reading posts here, but I was wondering if anyone knows a really good site out there for nutrition/exercise plans for losing weight. Really, any help in getting started/figuring this out would be greatly appreciated.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Erasmus

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Well snap, I just saw Warboss Alex's post on fat loss -- I had been searching weight loss. If a mod wants to delete this thread, that's fine. Plus as a bonus, I'll look like less of a nob >__>
 

Quagmire911

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Start a journal if you like.

The anabolic diet is probably a better option for you, check out stronglifts.com for more info.

Good luck.
 

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losing (and keeping off) more than 1-2 pounds of body fat per week is very, very difficult, so you're looking at 1-2 years, depending on your progress.

that's way too far out to set a goal. try setting yourself goals for 3 months from now, tops, with interim measures of your progress. i recommend you focus on how you look in the mirror, plus tape measure around the waist at regular intervals, and much less emphasis on the scale, which is unreliable, esp. when trying to add muscle while shed fat.
 
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