"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Losing the V-card at a late age.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Naughty Ninja
Banned
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
It helped me to see women in a different way. I also felt good knowing that I had actually had sex. Though after I had it, there was a constant need for it. Since I barely ever get any, it's always on my mind whenever I'm not focused on something.
Before I lost my virginity, I knew I liked girls, but never really knew why. Now I know exactly what I want from them and have a rough idea of what it's going to be like.
SexyMofo
Banned
I was just angry and bitter as f*ck. I didn't understand why women didn't want me.
So I changed myself.
It was a long and hard road. I'm not as angry, but I still have some bitterness because the game still isn't easy for me. I only f*ck 1 out of 4 women I go out with. The women I do f*ck are not the hot b*tches, they are average at best.
All things considered, I am much much better off than 5 years back.
Don't get me wrong.....like any human being I love and crave it, but sex is probably the single most overrated thing in the world. I guess I built it up in my mind to be an epic experience. I thought it'd feel like movie or something!
It was great when it happened but it wasn't quite the mind blowing experience I was expecting. This is a liberating realization because I know a lot of guys that would do pretty much anything for pvssy. Getting laid is important to me, but I'm not going to bend over backwards like a lot of dudes to get it.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
initiatorhater06
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You feel like sh*t not because you're not having fun but because you're unable to get what others get,especially since it's a thing for what you're evalued socially.
Most of the times the v-card is what makes the difference between losers and winners at high school,no need to tell you how we are sensible to pressures in that moment of our life.
This is the reason why getting a hooker doesn't solve the problem,it's like paying someone else to extract the sword from the rock.