"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
And my point is that you shouldn't lose sleep over a woman online or offline. They are not worth it. There are always plenty of more around.Plutoman said:
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
i think we might need:
A) more mods to deal with the trash ( ban the trolls / dicrent the noobies to the dj bible. better then making a stupid post)
b) getting rid of the 10 post per day limit. that is just stupid. make it like 30 for the regulars. set a post limit of like 500 post or something. ( i know why this is set so low, so know one trolls . spams the site. though if you set your post count to be somthing like 500 do you really think a troll / spammer is really going to wait till then just to get 30 more post a day?)
c) clean up the topics. some of them are great. most are not. I'm not talking about the ones asking for help, I most many of them when a stupid idea goes in my head. or i'm having a chode week. this weeks trahs topic " looks matter" no they don't game will eclipse looks MOST of the time not all. ( this still doesn't mean you should look your best)
d) maybe start a noobie sub forum? ( just throwing this out there)
it's SOOO annoying to come on here and see all the crappy topics, it's like ugh!