So here's my dating situation... I was in a long term relationship (almost 7 years, we were living together) which I ended almost exactly one year ago. I ended it mainly because I was feeling restless and frankly thought I could do better. Nowadays I'm not so sure. My ex was an HB7.5 and a pretty decent girl. Post-breakup, I spent last summer sulking/fvcking the occasional HB6, gained some weight from all the beer I was drinking, and then started hitting the gym and got my shyt back together. In November I started dating a legit HB9 (and she was a 9 despite being 34 years old. She used to be a legit HB10, did underwear modelling, tv shows and dated a prominent professional athlete). That ended badly after I broke up with her about 3 months in (which I posted about on here earlier and some of you guys suspected that she had a personality disorder).
Since then, these have been a few of my experiences:
- I dated another girl (HB7.5) and on the third date, after we were naked in her bed and hadn't had sex yet, she said "you make me uncomfortable... and not in a good way" as I was on top of her. This after we have already built a lot of rapport and I was anything but creepy with her. I got up, left and stopped contacting her.
- I started seeing an HB8 and things were going great until she went back to her ex.
And then now, I have been seeing an HB8 long distance (2 hours away), texting all the time, and have incredible report. I almost could see myself falling for her. I am relocating to her city in a couple months for work (coincidentally, has nothing to do with her and was in the works before I met her) as well. We have not had an exclusivity talk and I suspect she is seeing other men. Anyway, I find that as things move towards something more serious she is backing off. Also, she was supposed to come to my city to visit next weekend, but texted me with an excuse and said she feels really bad and really wanted to come. She didn't offer a counter-proposal to come visit. My gut tells me I am losing this one and I am usually right when I trust it. We have mutual friends who set us up so I think she'd be very hesitant to just cut things off or be up front if she's losing interest.
Anyway, I am becoming pretty fvkcing fed up with dating. I am a good guy with my **** together, I'm in good physical shape, 32 years old, have a good job, no baggage, own my house, and am probably an 8 or so on the looks scale. Why does it have to be so difficult to get a girlfriend these days??? I find it's fairly easy to get dates and even date girls for awhile, but it always seems to unravel after awhile. I know a lot of you will tell me to just spin more plates and enjoy the single life and I get that, but I really just want a girl to settle down with. I don't have the time or energy for this crap and I find dating just leaves me feeling pissed off and frustrated all the time.
Anyone else feeling this way???
Since then, these have been a few of my experiences:
- I dated another girl (HB7.5) and on the third date, after we were naked in her bed and hadn't had sex yet, she said "you make me uncomfortable... and not in a good way" as I was on top of her. This after we have already built a lot of rapport and I was anything but creepy with her. I got up, left and stopped contacting her.
- I started seeing an HB8 and things were going great until she went back to her ex.
And then now, I have been seeing an HB8 long distance (2 hours away), texting all the time, and have incredible report. I almost could see myself falling for her. I am relocating to her city in a couple months for work (coincidentally, has nothing to do with her and was in the works before I met her) as well. We have not had an exclusivity talk and I suspect she is seeing other men. Anyway, I find that as things move towards something more serious she is backing off. Also, she was supposed to come to my city to visit next weekend, but texted me with an excuse and said she feels really bad and really wanted to come. She didn't offer a counter-proposal to come visit. My gut tells me I am losing this one and I am usually right when I trust it. We have mutual friends who set us up so I think she'd be very hesitant to just cut things off or be up front if she's losing interest.
Anyway, I am becoming pretty fvkcing fed up with dating. I am a good guy with my **** together, I'm in good physical shape, 32 years old, have a good job, no baggage, own my house, and am probably an 8 or so on the looks scale. Why does it have to be so difficult to get a girlfriend these days??? I find it's fairly easy to get dates and even date girls for awhile, but it always seems to unravel after awhile. I know a lot of you will tell me to just spin more plates and enjoy the single life and I get that, but I really just want a girl to settle down with. I don't have the time or energy for this crap and I find dating just leaves me feeling pissed off and frustrated all the time.
Anyone else feeling this way???