Losing my virginity with hookers to get over sexual hang-ups

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you can see how the porn watching is affecting you going there with a threesome in mind...I'd drop the porn.

 

[JonJaper]

Maybe if the sex industry was more government regulated and even taxable. It would take more power away from women in general.

It would be like the 50s... All over again, and of course male prostitute industry wouldn't take away from us men because women can't seem to get over that they don't want to seem like a *****.

We really need to stop the demonization of this industry, I just don't understand how someone can feel like they are the **** because they tricked a woman to have sex with them. You are in no way better than this guy who had a threesome with HB10s and was high as a kite too.

What a hell of a way to get your cherry popped, way better than ****ing a HB6 in Grade 10, with braces and a bit of fat, with some acne on the side... LOL.

Lol thanks for bringing this thread up again. It's been over 7 weeks since I went to Amsterdam and I STILL don't regret this experience one bit, because the points that I mentioned in posts #39 and #43 still ring true for me.

I'm not listening to AFCs, women, OR the media/ increasingly feminist society who are afraid of male sexuality and will try and make you feel bad for embracing it. It has given me so much confidence and reduced my self-consciousness and how much I care about what people think. When you don't give a $hit about people's reactions and judgements, the possibility of a girl rejecting you infront of people just doesn't seem so scary anymore.

I trust myself more now.

I'm so glad I did this because it has been a catalyst for action. Since this experience, I've been hitting the gym hard and I've solidly stuck to a new bulking diet...I've been getting really good gains and progress on my lifts, I even notice that clothes which were kindof loose before are now a lot more tight-fitting...my chest, thighs and arms are really filling out now. As I type this now, I'm getting amped up to go to the gym in a few minutes. I'm on the final week of an 8 week workout cycle, and because I have a rest period at the end of the workout cycle, I'm going to push myself physically to the absolute limit. I've never committed to a gym workout routine for this long before, I've never pushed myself and broke out of my physical comfort zone this hard before...and I don't think it's a coincidence that my commitment and resolve to improve has suddenly shot up after my Amsterdam trip.

I've also just started taking part in a Don Juan Bootcamp too (it's currently on week 1), so that's another part of my life that I've committed to take action and improve upon.

And you're right... it was a fun way of losing my virginity. Stoned off my face and f*cking two super hot girls. To me it was better than losing it to some average looking oneitis.

you can see how the porn watching is affecting you going there with a threesome in mind...I'd drop the porn.

I'm cutting down on porn for time management and focus reasons, not because threesomes are bad LOL... I personally don't see anything wrong with that threesome with the hookers. The girls were cool with it, there was no look of surprise or a freakout when I asked them if they would do a threesome...they casually said yeah like it was no big deal. It was really enjoyable. A lot of guys aim to have a threesome with 2 girls (myself included) and I fulfilled my sexual fantasy. I also f*cked 4 girls (2 in the threesome, the HB10 redhead some time after the threesome and the HB9 Hungarian the morning after) in the space of 24 hours.

Having said that, I do realise that porn can warp your expectations and make things a little unrealistic. I realise that, I'm not expecting every girl to have massive fake tits, give good head and be down to f*ck 24/7 with other girls. I understand what's realistic and what's not. I won't fall into the trap of using this sexual experience as a benchmark to compare everything else by, because that would be unrealistic and warped. I know this was a one-off.

But that's what made the experience fun for me...knowing that it was not going to be something expected and ordinary. Plus I knew that it would mark the beginning of my self-improvement journey. Knowing that I'm going to be a better person because I took action was a big step for me and also made this a positive experience.

 

[Cloba4life]

hey, thanks you so much for this post, lol
i have the same problem and i want to do the same thing as you to overcome my problem. i have never had a GF or kissed or F###ed a girl. i am turning 18 this 31 December(NY Eve LOL) and as it will be new years parties every where i want to celebrate both my 18th and the new year by F####ing the **** out of a hooker in Sydney's red light district. BTW in Australia, you are of legal age once you turn 18 and in Sydney, prostitution is legal and regulated. i just wanted to say that your post made me more eager to just get this **** done with so i can spend my time on other important things in my life. i am a very bad communicator, i wasn't like this before but i got depressed and **** a while a go and i think i am still not out of it 100%, so it was hard for me to point out exactly what my problem was and why i wanted to loose my virginity to a prostitute get it over with. but i was agreeing and with every single thing with you as i was reading your posts. now i know what i have to do and i am not ashamed of it. i have a lot more to say but cant. there liek a few weeks only left till my 18th and i wanted your advcie on what and how to do this. cheers mate, from Sydney, Australia

 

[YAboi]

God doesn't want this for humanity.....smh

 

[SgtSplacker]

From what I know the first time is usually very awkward for everyone. I know it was weird for me, I got a nosebleed! lol I was around 16, i'm 38 now and have never had one since just to demonstrate how unusual it is for me to get a nosebleed. But yeah clean up, wear some nice clothes, make it your own special event, pick one with nice big titties and hit that.

Make sure you get a BJ before hand because those are awesome. And after you nut if you nut quick try to keep her busy for another nut before it's over. In america they want to leave after you bust. And dont distract her with alcohol or weed or whatever. Just straight farking and blowing. I'd start by just standing in front of her and dropping your pants from the get go, put her to work!

Have fun mate!

 

[JonJaper]

hey, thanks you so much for this post, lol
i have the same problem and i want to do the same thing as you to overcome my problem. i have never had a GF or kissed or F###ed a girl. i am turning 18 this 31 December(NY Eve LOL) and as it will be new years parties every where i want to celebrate both my 18th and the new year by F####ing the **** out of a hooker in Sydney's red light district. BTW in Australia, you are of legal age once you turn 18 and in Sydney, prostitution is legal and regulated. i just wanted to say that your post made me more eager to just get this **** done with so i can spend my time on other important things in my life. i am a very bad communicator, i wasn't like this before but i got depressed and **** a while a go and i think i am still not out of it 100%, so it was hard for me to point out exactly what my problem was and why i wanted to loose my virginity to a prostitute get it over with. but i was agreeing and with every single thing with you as i was reading your posts. now i know what i have to do and i am not ashamed of it. i have a lot more to say but cant. there liek a few weeks only left till my 18th and i wanted your advcie on what and how to do this. cheers mate, from Sydney, Australia

No problem Cloba, I'm glad the thread and my comments on the whole experience helped you.


From personal experience, it is one of the best ways of taking a woman off the pedestal, and realising that sex doesn't have to be all 'mystical' and 'magical'. Sex isn't a big deal. Plus if you've got naked and stuck your d!ck in a super hot hooker that could have been a supermodel or a pornstar based on her looks, then walking up to an ordinary girl and saying hi becomes no problem.

I was apprehensive and doubtful at first when I contemplated going to Amsterdam...but once I made a financial commitment and booked my flight + hotel, I knew there was no turning back so I went with a positive attitude by thinking I was going to have a fun experience and start a new chapter in my life. I also went in thinking that I'm doing this for MYSELF.

It is important that you go in with a positive mindset, not giving a f*ck about what people think, remembering that you're doing this for yourself and that you WILL have fun.

If the red light district in Sydney is anything like the one in Amsterdam, there's gonna be girls of all shapes, sizes and races. There will be ugly ones, average ones, nice ones and mega hot ones, don't be afraid to spend lots of time looking around for the right girl. Do not settle for a girl that isn't right, even if it means going home without getting some action (this is a good attitude to cultivate which will eliminate desperation and prevent oneitis later on in life). For example, every time I f*cked a girl, I spent ages walking around the red light district, upto 1/2 an hour to find the right one. I turned down ugly hookers, fat hookers, hookers with cute faces but bodies that I didn't like (small tits and virtually flat-chested, or slightly chubby etc), and hookers that were hot but were just not hot enough (HB7s, HB8s). There were times where a pretty girl knocked at the window and called me over to come in and f*ck her, and I would hesitate and contemplate f*cking her but then I would think "No, I will see ALL the girls here and f*ck the hottest ones, I will NOT settle for this". I repeat...do not settle. You will feel like a chooser, not a beggar. With such choice and power to reject some really hot girls so you can f*ck the hottest one there...desperation is gone.


So make sure you pick a really hot girl...at least an HB9. One that looks like a supermodel and f*cks like a pornstar. Don't be afraid to ask for exactly what you want (how they should suck your d!ck, what position to go, etc). Be bold and do not give a $hit.

Also make sure you're safe and wear a johnny. Ask them if they use condoms, they should not only say yes, but say "Yeah of course, duhh!" like it's really obvious and standard protocol for them.

 

[JonJaper]

And Cloba...you'll notice that in this thread, I used my hooker experience as a catalyst for self-improvement. Do the same. Don't just settle for f*cking hookers all your life. Use this as a turning point and as a start to a new chapter of self-improvement in your life. Make sure you will never be the same depressed, socially awkward chump EVER again.


Read the DJ Bible: http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/


Read the High School Bible. Although it's in the High School section, there are many parallels with university and college which is what you're about to go into I'm assuming by your age:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=33715


Start working out and seriously hitting the gym/having a good diet if you haven't done so already.


And get motivated. Pay particular attention to threads by Brazilian Blues Boy (especially his "I'm winning", "Happy" and "The Man" threads), I personally found him an inspiration: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=136649

 

[generalfranco]

Women who are 9's and 10's seek out men who are 9's and 10's.

With prostitutes you only pay for the upgrade.

You must be a homosexual. That isn't true in Russia or anywhere in Eastern Europe. What you say only applies in countries where the percentage of 9s and 10 women is less than a percent like the UK or USA. Also, all men that are 9s and 10s are closeted homosexuals. Proven fact that all body builders are gay.

 

[bigneil]

Funny how if a woman sells a man a couch for $500 it's ok, but if she sells physical relief for $500 then both the man and woman become bad somehow.

Mel Gibson just got divorced. One of the biggest hunks of the past generation. Think he gets it for free? He ended up paying $65,000 per day for 27 years, or about 200 hookers per days worth, to his ex. Charlie Sheen still pays them too.

99% of hookers are cold and non caring .. do not loose you V to one of them you need a special service that will cost more but is called GFE (girl friend experience) it wil cost more but will be much less cold and business like..

Totally true. The way to find the warm ones is to go to a bunch of strip bars. It tends to be a huge ego-boost because you are reversing the roles. The women do the approaching and selling. You might even have to fend some off. If you have learned PUA techniques, they are still key in that environment because if 10 strippers are there and 10 customers, Natural Selection still applies. The hottest stripper (in general) gets the hottest customer. You might even get legitimate dates, some of which are off the clock. They often want to maintain a relationship after (sex is still awkward the first time with any new person, even if you are a pro). Sometimes they want to move right in. They will also make many observations about you that they tend to "think out loud" with. It's also an important lesson in just what sex is worth on the free market.

 

[perseverance]

Prostitution is as old as man itself. Prostitution was common sight in ancient Greece for example.

I don't think prostitution is wrong, but it does need to be regulated properly and procedures need to be implemented to protect both the worker and the customer.

The only reason I won't use a prostitute is because I don't want to have sex with a woman that has been rammed by a thousand different men, it just doesn't appeal to me.