"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Losing my sex drive

j-flex

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whats up everybody,,, well i used to be a sex machine, always thinking about sex and chit, but now is like i dont even care about it anymore, i have been going out with my gf for almost 2 years and lately i have been losing my sex drive, not just with her but in general. Now im focused on bigger things like chasing my dreams and improving myself.

i dont know whats wrong with me.

help me out.

btw im 20
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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I made a post called Your Life Along With Women. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=145194 if you havent read it. Wasn't very detailed. But, I was explaining how people should be focusing on themselves becoming a man and less time focused on women. There is nothing wrong with you. Your just seeing now that women and sex don't get you anywhere in life! Have hobbys, dreams, goals, a job, friends and ect. Focus on that and persue it!!
 

Moofahsa

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It happens man, I totally lost my drive a couple of months ago.

It was almost overnight, I went from daily to none for two weeks. I lost a fvck buddy over the deal cause I just didn't have the time or energy to spend on it. I really think it is stress related, (at least with me) once I got through my big project at work it was game on as usual.

Luckily I was able to kick start myself with a 6 pack of viagra, after I ran out my head was back in the game.
 

afrojiggles

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try tribulus 750 mg from your local dietician or google it and see where you can buy online as its real rock solid as it rejuvenates your sex drive back to where its supposed to be, okay report success back
 

mintxx

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cialis man. i was boning a nymphomaniac a while back and little mint was getting tired so i fired him up for a drilling session, that sh!t lasts for days in your system off of one tab, and it also stops you coming, so it turned out to be about 6 hours of slammin n squealin in total. once you're off it you'll be relieved to have a hard on you can actually get rid of. great for making movies.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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wolf116

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mintxx said:
cialis man. i was boning a nymphomaniac a while back and little mint was getting tired so i fired him up for a drilling session, that sh!t lasts for days in your system off of one tab, and it also stops you coming, so it turned out to be about 6 hours of slammin n squealin in total. once you're off it you'll be relieved to have a hard on you can actually get rid of. great for making movies.
So doctors just give this sh!t out to 27yo's like candy now?

I'm in!!!
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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j-flex said:
whats up everybody,,, well i used to be a sex machine, always thinking about sex and chit, but now is like i dont even care about it anymore, i have been going out with my gf for almost 2 years and lately i have been losing my sex drive, not just with her but in general. Now im focused on bigger things like chasing my dreams and improving myself.

i dont know whats wrong with me.

help me out.

btw im 20
Why is this in health and fitness? To me it seems he wants to focus on his life now. Unless, I am misunderstanding something here. He's 20 years old; he doesn't need viagra or some sh!t...
 

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You can have some of mine!!! I'm 26 and I have the sex drive of a sex crazed 17 year old... Its kinda annoying at times, but overall, I wouldn't wanna part with it. I got ape-sh1t if i don't blow my load atleast 1-2 times a day.

Cialis/viagra and other 5-PDE (phosphodiesterase) inhibitors don't actually increase sex drive, they just make it easier to get hard by acting on the vascular endothelium (lining of the blood vessels). I've used both drugs to rope off for shows and I don't like them as I find although I get really hard, I tend to lose sensation...which makes them kinda crappy for sexual pleasure for oneself.

Plus me (with my sex drive) and those drugs together = sore gf.

I'd try tribulus at 1500-3000 mg per day. I personally use the stuff by Ultimate nutrition. Maybe some ZMA as well. Also take a multi, EFAs, eat well and train hard, and generally be happy...
 

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Whats wrong with you youngsters? At my age (50) its natural that 50% of the blokes lose it. I push weights which boosts your testosterone level and I use ZMA which does the same thing. Have got a body that a 30 year old would be envious about and wake up every morning with a hard on. But if I really want to please my fvck buddy I take half a Cialis. Wonderfull stuff, can shag her for hours with real monkey sex - she loves it especially as I am well endowed (she claims) and shes been round the bock :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Axcell

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Stop eating papayas! Google it - it lowers your sex drive. ;)
 

j-flex

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i think is maybe because im bored of my gf. im stuck in a LTR, almost going for 2 years.
 

mintxx

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looks like cialis gets the vote. and boys, the key is to go to your doc and tell him you have a psych-o-sekshooal disorder. he'll be reaching for the prescription pad before you've drawn breath. most of them get rewarded by the manufacturers of the gear for every time they push it.
hot tip: get the 20mg and quarter it with a razor. a quarter is enough to make you crazy hard, unless you have an actual physical problem, which you wouldn't. saves $$ since they sell the 5mg for way more per mg.

edit - my mistake it's not unanimous - fugly makes a good point as it doesn't actually increase sex drive and can make it feel like you have a prosthetic wang - i actually fell asleep while my ex was riding me once
 

mintxx

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try sleeping with a girl who is the opposite of your gf in every way.
or, try sleeping with your gf the opposite way, if you know what i mean

variety be the spice of life
 
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