"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Losing control/Tweaking appearance.. need help

DJdisciple

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There's this girl thats a couple years younger than me that I went to high school with. I like her a lot, she's not superficial like lots of other hot women, and I can generally say whatever I want when I'm with her. She just broke up with her boyfriend and I invited her to a party at my place. I was flirting raelly well with her, and she flirted back quite a bit, but I think she probably just likes flirting. I even was flirting with othre women right in front of her but she didn't seem to care. I think she see's me as a non-guy(bare with me). In other words she doesn't see me as a relationship guy, because she thinks i am probalby a lonre or something. Which I have been for a long time.

I know you guys always say never give your power away and tell them you like them, but how else can I get her to see me in a new light? Or does anyone have a few things I could do to try and get her more attracted to me? I am thinking about actually telling her a little of my feelings just because she doesn't get htis much attention from guys normally. I think that super attractive women would run from that, but not ones that don't get that kind of **** all the time. Anwyays, comments would be appreciated.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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