I think you want us to think you are a loser. Otherwise, why would you ask the question?Nikar said:To cut it short:
There's a female colleague I like (for 1+ year) and despite 1+ year together, we seldom talk. She has a boyfriend since day one.
Recently, we talked more and got along much better than before, but she will be leaving the company in 1 month's time.
I will be giving her a sweet and cute farewell gift that is guaranteed to make her heart melt, but I'm not asking for anything in return since I know it's 100% impossible between us. The gift is more like my silent dedication to her for being fond of her for 1+ year. After that, I'll make myself forget everything.
The question is: Am I a loser?
You just need to answer YES / NO.
No need for further comments.
Thanks!
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Loser or not?
- Thread starter Nikar
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