I think you want us to think you are a loser. Otherwise, why would you ask the question?Nikar said:To cut it short:
There's a female colleague I like (for 1+ year) and despite 1+ year together, we seldom talk. She has a boyfriend since day one.
Recently, we talked more and got along much better than before, but she will be leaving the company in 1 month's time.
I will be giving her a sweet and cute farewell gift that is guaranteed to make her heart melt, but I'm not asking for anything in return since I know it's 100% impossible between us. The gift is more like my silent dedication to her for being fond of her for 1+ year. After that, I'll make myself forget everything.
The question is: Am I a loser?
You just need to answer YES / NO.
No need for further comments.
Thanks!
Xeon
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Loser or not?
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