"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lose Fat ASAP

HolyG

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Okay so I've been working out hard the past four months, put on a decent amount of muscle but what's plaguing me is my body fat.

It's weird. My body stores fat in my ass and the backs of my thighs. I'm a guy but I never really get a fat stomach.

It's annoyed me for a large part of my life and i'm about to get rid to it. I still plan on doing exercises like pushups, upside down vertical pushups, and working on abs and lower back in the gym, but from here on till I can get it gone, it's all cardio.

What should I be eating? Can I continue to take two scoops of whey protein a day to keep up the muscle? What kind of cardio should I be running? Please help.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dj ben2

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bro im in the exac boat as you as for body preportions ive got abs at 15% BF simply becos i got a big ass and legs
 

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Well unfortunately there is no special kind of exercise we can do to get rid of weight at targeted areas in our body.

We can only do cardio and the body will get rid of it where it wants to first and where you want it to get rid of it later.

Thats just how it is.

The most optimal type of cardio you can do to make the fat loss quicker is High Intensity Interval Training also known as HIIT.

Steady state cardio can still be done as well though on off days where you don't do HIIT.

HIIT I believe is something only someone fully conditioned to exercise is supposed to do and something someone is only supposed to do about three times per week.

You can google it and find the exact way you are supposed to go about performing it.
 

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there is a diet ive been looking into which is aimed at reducing fat from stubborn areas and theres quite a science involved in it its called UD2 (ultimate diet 2) written by lyle mcdonald go buy it as i strongly think he deserves the money but for u cheapskates out there here it is but u gotta read the whole thing

http://members.tripod.com/ns_powerlifting/UD2.pdf

he has a forum dedicated to his work aswell with alot of active users who can all give feedback if your doubting what im saying

http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/forums

the low down on this diet is for the first 3 days you eat 50% of maintenance calories with no more then 60g carbs a day
those 3 days yu do depletion workouts (15 rep sets and you do aobut 8 SETS!) to deplete all muscle glycogen then you have a carbup day typically eating about 1000g(1kg) of carbs which are partitioned to muscle storage instead of fat stores then the next day you do a massive powerworkout (low reps) there is a hell of a lot more science out of it and i have only very ROUGHLY explained it ive been doing it for 3 weeks now with slow but steady gains on the weights and a solid 0.7kg of fat every week i like it because its the only diet i know where i can pig out on my beloved carbs
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Low carb dieting would help you lose fat rapidly.

but it would also probably take away more muscle then your willing to give up to achieve your goals.
 

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Just take some of that Hydroxycut **** or whatever it is they have now, I took some in high school and man I got cut!
 

dj ben2

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bro if this is a serious issue for u do a PSFM and eat 1.5gprotein per LB of LEAN body mass and NOTHING ELSE!!!!! so thats gonna b like 800cals u wont lose much muscle u train like u are bulking u lose fat rapidly and dont do it until uve finished growing

coming off of it is tricky add carbs and cals very very slowly
 

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How is your diet? What you eat and how much you're eating account for a lot more than when and how long you work out for. If you have a problem with losing fat, the odds are good that it's not a result of your working out - it's the stuff you're putting into your body.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do not take your own advice and do cardio only, you will more than likely regret it and also have wasted plenty of muscle building opportunity. (Yes muscle building and fat loss at the same time are possible).

Next time to a search and good luck,

Quagmire

Ps-Here are the links you need:

Train like this: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=125444

Combine these two for diet:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=114618
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134782

And make a log, voila.
 

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diablo said:
How is your diet? What you eat and how much you're eating account for a lot more than when and how long you work out for. If you have a problem with losing fat, the odds are good that it's not a result of your working out - it's the stuff you're putting into your body.
Hey look, it's diablo
 
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