"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LOooooooooooOng Time

Mafiosoman14

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Everytime i come back here it is like a new world i havent been here for awhile and just stoppin back to say hi to everyone. I see wuwd still here and postin. what happend to all the original dj's?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Juggalo

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I myself just came back here tonight to check out how things are going on the site...I need to come back and STAY! I need some MAJOR help when it comes to attracting girls. This site has helped me immensley thus far, though!
 

Mafiosoman14

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LOL it is great to come back after a year and read the bible or somthing man i remeber when i first found this site i was the biggest nerd now i walk with my shoulders back with some class. it is great to look back at those times, you dont attract the women you approach them that chick magnet **** really doesnt work. the ladies dont just come up to you man.
 

Void

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hell i dont even remember you. but i welcome you back!:)
just wasting sometime before i get ready for this class I'm taking to prepare for next year. gotta go run too. well anyways how'd you do on your time not here?
 
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