Lookyoungs 100 Cold Approach Journal

[lookyoung]

My plates have run out. As of this moment I am not fvcking or seeing anyone. Because of this I feel its a good time to start an approach journal. After I am done with my 100 coldapproaches I will give you my stats as far as getting numbers, getting dates, and getting laid. (After 100 approaches I will give you my success rate in percentages. I believe mystery has a 10% success rate. Lets see how I fare. This is a challenge to myself and a motivation to sarge.

The majority of my approaches will be in the nightclub scene, but I will try some during the day. I will keep you guys updated with all my approaches.

 

[SickAgain]

God speed noble Chicagoan!

 

[lookyoung]

Will start my coldapproaches tomorrow at the club. I am going to compare mycoldapproach journal to baseball. Each approach is an at bat. Each # is a basehit, Each date is an RBI, A handjob is 2 RBI, A Bj is 3RBI, and a fvck is a grand slam.

I hope to be batting .350 and have at least 5 HR and 25 RBI after the 100 at bats.

In my system phat rabbit would be batting .213 with 1 HR and 6 RBI in 122 at bats. I guess thats considered descent for a pitcher in the ninth spot in the lineup.

The coldapproach seems like a tough thing to have success with. Lets see if I meet my goals Opening day starts tomorrow.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

good luck brother .

 

[schttrj]

go for it, bro.

even i also started doing CA now of late, more into the day game and not have the guts to follow through a 100 approach journal, but yes, i am doing it by bit.

i would be looking forward to yours.

 

[macallik]

Will start my coldapproaches tomorrow at the club. I am going to compare mycoldapproach journal to baseball. Each approach is an at bat. Each # is a basehit, Each date is an RBI, A handjob is 2 RBI, A Bj is 3RBI, and a fvck is a grand slam.

I hope to be batting .350 and have at least 5 HR and 25 RBI after the 100 at bats.

In my system phat rabbit would be batting .213 with 1 HR and 6 RBI in 122 at bats. I guess thats considered descent for a pitcher in the ninth spot in the lineup.

The coldapproach seems like a tough thing to have success with. Lets see if I meet my goals Opening day starts tomorrow.

Congrats for starting the approach journal. I think I may start one soon.

However, I question your motives when you are trying to belittle and demoralize other posters who have not had as much success as you deem to be acceptable. Being that you are a good deal older than Phat Rabbit, it does not seem plausible to pit yourself against him, a budding DJ finetuning his game. Who knows where PR will be in 5 years, heck even a year. He recently had a LR and is definitely pick up steam. Everyone enters the game @ different positions, hence it is not where you are at that is important so much as where you have come from. For example, Im sure there are other posters who are disappointed by the fact that you are 31 and still counting the numbers of girls you hook up with and using baseball analogies like a prepubescent boy, but because we do not know where you are coming from it is not completely fair to pass judgment on you.

Good luck in your journal and may I suggest to do this for the love of the women instead of the loosely veiled homosexual tendency many men have of trying to 'prove your masculinity' and get male followers.

 

[lookyoung]

However, I question your motives when you are trying to belittle and demoralize other posters who have not had as much success as you deem to be acceptable. Being that you are a good deal older than Phat Rabbit, it does not seem plausible to pit yourself against him, a budding DJ finetuning his game. Who knows where PR will be in 5 years, heck even a year. He recently had a LR and is definitely pick up steam. Everyone enters the game @ different positions, hence it is not where you are at that is important so much as where you have come from. For example, Im sure there are other posters who are disappointed by the fact that you are 31 and still counting the numbers of girls you hook up with and using baseball analogies like a prepubescent boy, but because we do not know where you are coming from it is not completely fair to pass judgment on you.Good luck in your journal and may I suggest to do this for the love of the women instead of the loosely veiled homosexual tendency many men have of trying to 'prove your masculinity' and get male followers.

I am not trying to demoralize anyone. Phat Rabbit has had more success with the coldapproach than alot of the other people who have started coldapproaches. I like phat Rabbit he has the balls of a fvcking elephant and I have repped him quite a few times. The coldapproach I feel has a low success rate. This is a challenge to myself.

I agree that everyone enters the game and different times. If your a guy that can't say hold a conversation with a girl and than you can thats cool. But I am past that I want action.

Hey man as far as baseball goes I love it. If someone is dissapointed thats there problem not mine. I am not here to make friends.

Has far as numbers go the majority of this community say the coldapproach is great.But I have said the coldapproach rate has a low success rate. I have called out plenty of members asking them to give a real life example of getting laid on the coldapproach and they cannot do it. Hell I may have a fvck close rate of 0% who the fvck knows.

Don't slam people on this forum. I could be like you and not get any pu$$Y. I guarantee your probably are not that successful otherwise you wouldn't be saying the sh1t your saying. Well good luck and instead of slamming people step up to the plate and start your own approach journal instead of being a fan of it.

 

[lookyoung]

I went out clubbing yesterday and I have to say it was an uneventful evening. I was pretty hammered but these are my approaches as best as I can remember. NOTE I HAD A BAD NIGHT.

Approach1 HB7 with beautiful eyes. I mean the most beautiful eyes I have ever seen. I walk up to her and say I know you get this all the time but you have the most beautiful eyes. She says thanks and than we have a short convo about the club and were she lives and I remember her telling me that she was single. I was in a very noisy part of the club. I ejected told her it was nice meeting her and I will talk to you later. That later never came.

To sum up the approach I probably should have been a little more aggressive and asked her to take a seat with me but the way the bar was set up they had that fenced off for bottle service. My other option was to dance and I really wasn't in the mood. 0/1 BA. 000


Approach2HB9 Asian. Even though I am not attracted to asians this one was pretty hot. I go up to her and say I am not really attracted to asian woman but I think your hot. She laughs and says something along the lines of I am not attracted to asian men. I say really why is that. She says because they have small diks. I start laughing and say I thought that was a myth. We get into the convo of were she lives, what she does. While I am talking to her my AFC friend tries to talk to her and she says I like him(meaning me and tells him to fvck off). We talk a little more and I say would you like to go out some time. She says sure. I ask for her number and she says I don't give out my number but I will take yours. I respond with I don't give out my number either. She says something along the lines of I am going to have a drink with my friend and I eject. 0/2 000. 0HR 0RBI

To sum up the approach. This is another one I would have asked to take a seat with me, but the bar didn't allow me do that.

Approach3 HB5 sweating my balls. Girl walking past me gives me the eye and I ask how is she doing? She says fine and stops and starts talking to me. We talk for a while and I introduce her to my friend and she asks if my friend would like to meet her friend. We talk as a group for a while. basic things the club,were she lives, all that stuff. She lives about 30 miles away from me. During the convo I ask how old she is and she says 24 I say I think I am too old for you I am 31.. She says age is nothing but a number. ( If this was an HB7 and above I would never say that. lol. I ask for her number and see she takes out her phone and I see she has a picture of a guy on there with her. I tease her about it and she said she just broke up with her BF. yeah right I am thinking. I talk a little more and leave. If she was hot I would have spent an hour with her. 1/3 .333 HR0 RBI0

To sum it up this girl had a high interest level in me if I was attracted to her I would have made out with her on the spot. But since I wasn't I ejected. The only way I would fvck this girl is if she called me on a lonely night and asked if she could come over. I wouldn't put a minute or a dime in this. The only thing I would put in her is my c0ck in her mouth.

Approach4 HB7 married b1tch Hey how are you. I like your earrings. She responds with thank you. We talk for a little bit and I ask if she is polish. She says she is hispanic and I tell her she doesn't look like it. We get to the basic talk of club,bla,.bla... Than I ask if she is single and she says she is married. I say than why are you not with your husband. She responds that he went to a bachelor party. I tell her why don't we get together because he is probably sucking some girls tits right now. We talk a little more and I see it wasn't going nowere so I eject. 1/4 .250 0HR 0RBI

To sum it up if this girl really was married she doesn't belong in the club. These girls deserved to get c0ck slapped and so do there husbands for letting them out.

Approach5 This approach is not even worth mentioning. 1/5 .200 0HR 0RBI.



My observations from the night at the club.
* Never approach a girl from behind. ( That is what the PUA say and its true).

*Woman have alot of power over us in the initial approach.

* Its better for a woman to choose you.

* Confidence, social status and looks are the 3 most important things in the cold approach.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Nice to see more guys are starting journals...

Approach 1: You should've just escalated until she left...seems like it was a decent set, and based on your challenge it would've been better to just escalate until she ran away..."Go back...and Run The Train"

Approach 2: In the circumstances of your challenge, fuk a #, escalate to the hill. Also if you do what to get a # atleast make sure the set is solid. I'm not sure if this was what happened in this situation, but most guys who aren't enjoying the process of actually interacting with the chick or if they are running low on what to say, the jump for the #. She didn't give her # so you should've hung in there and kept interacting and try again later. Plow it you have nothing to lose.

Approach 3: This was good...

Approach 4: Funny set, make it in your reality that it doesn't matter if she has a BF or Husband...this way chicks who are probably seeing someone will rarely bring it up. Also you would then never ask if there single, but if it's a moral thing as to why you ask if there single then...ok...

My observations from the night at the club.
* Never approach a girl from behind. ( That is what the PUA say and its true).

*Woman have alot of power over us in the initial approach.

* Its better for a woman to choose you.

* Confidence, social status and looks are the 3 most important things in the cold approach.

1. Try tapping a chick from behind to get her attention...Hold your state and reality that way no matter what her responses is, it doesn't effect you. I once had a chick I tapped who go so scared, as if she was in a scary movie. I didn't flinch at all and it opened...hahaha...Basically the never approach from behind is a limiting beliefs and also limits you in certain situations. Then you'll end up like my wing who does the super hero turn by walking ahead to position properly...haha...

2. Have a stronger frame...it's all in your head...If you are a guy of abundance and every chick already wants you...then all you have to do is select the chick and give her the chance to get to meet you. If you firmly believe this then you can go in and just say things like "Are you cool enough to hang with?" Basically your the one screening.

 

[MikeYikes122]

Hey lookyoung, good to see you doing this.

I'm currently in the same boat you are. I only have one plate left, and I really don't even like being around her. I need to meet some new ones.

My problem is, while I'm good at cold approaching, I've mainly just relied on social game in the past. I think we're both alike in that aspect.

I'd like to get some plates spinning using cold approaches in bars and in public. I've only pulled one or two plates off cold approaches in the past year. The majority of my plates have just been chicks I've met through my friends and my social circle.

Anyway, I will try to get a journal going this week too. I have a digital recorder, but the audio usually isn't very clear. Though I might try to post some.

 

[lookyoung]

Nice to see more guys are starting journals...

Approach 1: You should've just escalated until she left...seems like it was a decent set, and based on your challenge it would've been better to just escalate until she ran away..."Go back...and Run The Train"

Approach 2: In the circumstances of your challenge, fuk a #, escalate to the hill. Also if you do what to get a # atleast make sure the set is solid. I'm not sure if this was what happened in this situation, but most guys who aren't enjoying the process of actually interacting with the chick or if they are running low on what to say, the jump for the #. She didn't give her # so you should've hung in there and kept interacting and try again later. Plow it you have nothing to lose.

Approach 3: This was good...




Approach 4: Funny set, make it in your reality that it doesn't matter if she has a BF or Husband...this way chicks who are probably seeing someone will rarely bring it up. Also you would then never ask if there single, but if it's a moral thing as to why you ask if there single then...ok...



1. Try tapping a chick from behind to get her attention...Hold your state and reality that way no matter what her responses is, it doesn't effect you. I once had a chick I tapped who go so scared, as if she was in a scary movie. I didn't flinch at all and it opened...hahaha...Basically the never approach from behind is a limiting beliefs and also limits you in certain situations. Then you'll end up like my wing who does the super hero turn by walking ahead to position properly...haha...

2. Have a stronger frame...it's all in your head...If you are a guy of abundance and every chick already wants you...then all you have to do is select the chick and give her the chance to get to meet you. If you firmly believe this then you can go in and just say things like "Are you cool enough to hang with?" Basically your the one screening.

This is great advice all around. You pretty much nailed everything on the money. Thanks for the advice and I will try to apply this. Also I tend to drink a tad too much sometime so I will probably cut down a smidge on the vodka tonics. Let me throw a gem at you.

 

[lookyoung]

Hey lookyoung, good to see you doing this.

I'm currently in the same boat you are. I only have one plate left, and I really don't even like being around her. I need to meet some new ones.

My problem is, while I'm good at cold approaching, I've mainly just relied on social game in the past. I think we're both alike in that aspect.

I'd like to get some plates spinning using cold approaches in bars and in public. I've only pulled one or two plates off cold approaches in the past year. The majority of my plates have just been chicks I've met through my friends and my social circle.

Anyway, I will try to get a journal going this week too. I have a digital recorder, but the audio usually isn't very clear. Though I might try to post some.

My success with the coldapproach has come through the nightclub scene although I have not been as active in the scene as of late because of the plates spinning I was spinning. Those plates are not around anymore so its a good time for me to do this. I have never did anything with the daytime approach. I also have relied on heavily on social game and have had plenty of success online recently.

I think its awesome for you to start a journal. Even though the numbers of success I feel in most journals as far as lays go will not be that high I think its good for every member here to challenge himself.

I strongly encourage you to start the journal.

 

[wolf116]

Bump!

You better not be quitting on us lookyoung. I'm looking forward to seeing what sort of results you can come up with.

 

[lookyoung]

Okay guys went out to a club last nite with my cousin and even though the night ended early because of him acting like a homo I still made 2 approaches.

APPROACH6 HB7.5 italian girl. I start off the approach with a basic how are you? Than we go on to talk about other clubs, work, and all the basic things. During the conversation she states she is dating a greek guy and I bust her chops saying greek guys will only marry there own. The conversation lasted 2 minutes and I didn't like the vibe she was giving me so I told her to have a nice night.

To sum up the approach. I approached her head on and she was sitting with her friend at a table. It lasted 2 minutes. It would have helped if I had a better wingman, my cousin stood there with his hands in his pants. I would have asked for her number but didn't because she told me she had a BF. If she said she was single I would have asked for her number.

1/6
BA 167. 0HR 0RBI.


APPROACH78.5 latina. This girl was hot. She orders a shot of greygoose straight and I tell her I can't believe your going to drink that straight. We talk about basic things and she showed me quite a few IOI. The IOI were asking me what color my eyes were?
Asking me if I work out?
Were I live?
What nationality am I?

I told her straight up that she was a doll and so cute. The whole time I was talking to her, her sister was there and I was talking to both of them. My cousin instead of being a good wingman stood there like an insecure little prick.

The only thing that threw me off was when I told her were I live she said oh my BF lives close to there. Later in to the conversation I asked her how long she had been with her boyfriend and she said 6 years. I did not attempt a number close even though I probably should have, but her being with her BF for 6 years and my cousin acting like an AFC just threw my game off. I had the feeling that I could have number closed but this would have probably ended up in a flake because of her BF. plus at this stage of my life and me being 31 I don't want to date girls that are married or have BF.

1/7BA.143. 0HR 0RBI.....