"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If looks are so important what makes a man good looking
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fly By Night

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Finding out which look looks good on you. Today I saw some pretty boy with combed blonde hair, a full tattoo sleeve of flaming skulls, those emo chain shorts, and a beatles shirt... Find out what looks good on you. Don't take bits and pieces of different looks and try to lump them together thinking that it will make you "versatile".

Oh! and a good smile. You have no idea of the power that a smile can hold.
 

Stagger Lee

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http://www.uni-regensburg.de/Fakultaeten/phil_Fak_II/Psychologie/Psy_II/beautycheck/english/prototypen/prototypen.htm

The research on this site explains a lot of what qualities makes a face attractive.

What makes a male good looking besides mentioned in that site like facial symmetry, porportions etc, is really just the absence of things that are unattractive.

Attractive:
symmetrical and proportionate face
Good hair
Good and aesthetic teeth
Good skin complexion and condition (slightly darker complexion)
Height
Leaness
V-shaped (broad shoulder/slim waisst)
Youthfullness/healthy

Unattractive:
Blading/thinning hair
Bad teeth or just not aesthetic
Wrinkled, blemished, pale skin
shortness
Fat
slender shoulders
Aged/unhealthy



You're 18 so you should naturally and easily have good skin, hair, leaness, youth and healthiness. As you can imagine most of these things are not really fixable if lacking.
 

The Gambler

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^^^^^ That (both posts). Remember, you're not trying to appeal to every single woman who happens to see you, and the style you choose will usually attract a similar style of woman.

Regardless of your style, details are important. Smelling nice and looking clean are important. Make her feel proud to be seen with you!
 
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