"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Crazy Asian

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ok, i've heard that looks for guys aren't that important. But i think they are. i mean, there was this guy that was really good looking, and we went to the icecream place, and 2 girls just came up to him and started flirting with him. In highschool, i think looks are jsut as important (if not more) than the rest of what this site is about. anyone care to agree/ disagree with me? i'd like to hear ur opinions on this :) thx
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I could be wrong, but I'm fairly sure there's a ban or something on threads about looks? No idea why, though. The moderators here are a little trigger-happy.
 

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It's not all looks. Just because that guy happened to be good looking, he was most likely confident as well. Women know when a guy is confident.
 

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Yea there's some type of a ban on these. But even if there weren't, it's still a dead horse that's being beaten.

In some cases looks are automatic door openers, where guys without looks might have to manually open the same door. Same door though, same thing when you walk through.
 

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dude, stop making these stupid threads. All we see from you are questions about looks and your insecurity about being asian or looking funny or being a nerd or whatever. Stop it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Luke!! said:
Actually I find status to be the key to getting girls in high school. There are some jocks who are not good looking, but since they are jocks and have high social status, girls want them. If she does not know you then she will base things off you looks and how you carry your self.
Looks are a bonus, but you have to exude confidence in the way you: walk, sit, talk, or act in general.

Stand tall, Sit tall, Walk at a slower pace (not retarded like slow), but slow your role.

Square those shoulders, and keep your head up.
 

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HAha. Bro no offense! But the game is a lot about looks. Im sorry to hurt your feelings, but looks increase the game, thts just it.

All the people that say looks arent important, they all saying that becouse they dont wanna hurt people feelings..

Now everyone can look good!

Get in shape, build muscles, dress in style, get a nice haircut etc..
You will look good.

And ofcourse, looks are just 20-30% of the game..

You gotta have brains, personality, $(maybe in HS it dont matter) it will once your older, car, a job, etc...

But looks triger the attraction. When you approach a hit chick and she sees some hairy, grumpy guy with clothing from garbage, she will just reject him, without even finding out whats he about, maybe he was a really cool guy!

So mate, looks DO MATTER!:cool:
 

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shydude said:
HAha. Bro no offense! But the game is a lot about looks. Im sorry to hurt your feelings, but looks increase the game, thts just it.

All the people that say looks arent important, they all saying that becouse they dont wanna hurt people feelings..

Now everyone can look good!

Get in shape, build muscles, dress in style, get a nice haircut etc..
You will look good.

And ofcourse, looks are just 20-30% of the game..

You gotta have brains, personality, $(maybe in HS it dont matter) it will once your older, car, a job, etc...

But looks triger the attraction. When you approach a hit chick and she sees some hairy, grumpy guy with clothing from garbage, she will just reject him, without even finding out whats he about, maybe he was a really cool guy!

So mate, looks DO MATTER!:cool:
HAha. Bro no offense! But the game is a lot about looks. Im sorry to hurt your feelings, but looks increase the game, thts just it.

And you destroyed yourself with that alone. You got close enough to repeating what I just said. :nono:

I said: Looks are a bonus
You said: Looks increase your game

But you obviously do not understand how looks actually work when it is applied to your "game," I will not explain it either.

There are many big dudes out there with women. In fact, these same big guys could probably out do Mr Muscles. It is not about pumping up on your Bowflex.

We are talking about attracting women; not getting on the front cover of Mens Fitness Magazine.

You have a weak case.
 

greenlake

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u sure r crazy my asian friend.

btw, just look ur best man. i'm asian and i can get girls. i'm sure u can too since we all look the same.










j/k
 

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looks can play a roll yes, guys born with natural good looks they have it good a lot of times girls can come easy to them, but looks don't matter you can not look great at all as long as you have good style and confidence in your looks then you will be perfectly OK. Use me for example i used to think looks was a huge deal all my friends i hung around girls always would choose them over me because of there looks, but because of this site i charm those same girls now and they want me just as bad and ive even with more beautiful women than my friends with the better looks because of this site and using my new DJ skills. So YES looks can be very good if you have good looks, But NO they don't change a thing when getting with a woman, because who is gunna be more successful with women a man that looks great but doesn't know how to handle a gorgeous woman or a DJ that can handle many gorgeous women at once?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i'm asian and i reckon right now i don't find it a problem when meeting women unless ur asian and u have buck teeth and dorky glasses
i don't know about u guys but we don't look alike
its how u act and present urself which determines how u go with women unless she is a racist biatch then she aint worth it
Have Asian Pride u AFCs!!!
 
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