"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Looks vs Height?

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I dont thinks this question has been asked before. Well not everyone is luckY enough to be tall dark and handsome. But you are more likely to have one of those characteristics at least.
You can see those guys who are tall but not good looking, maybe just average looking or below. and You can find those who are good looking but of average or short height....
What characteristics do you think gives you the advantage in terms of women wanting you, and if you had to choose, what would you pick?... I think height(im not tall by the way)..

P.S. This is a light topic and i know the best way to get girls is through having a strong game, but i think its an interesting question.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Thanks mate :)
 
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um, height goes under the looks category!

THis post is comparing a subject to itself. close this post now!
 
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Maybnoob said:
What characteristics do you think gives you the advantage in terms of women wanting you, and if you had to choose, what would you pick?... I think height(im not tall by the way)..
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THats actually a tough question to answer. You have to define what you mean by "which gives an advantage" before it can be answered. what I mean by that is do you mean which will increase you attractiveness more if you were to improve it while leaving the other trait the same? if thats your definition of advantageous trait, then its a subjective thing. Say your already really good looking, but not perfect, room for improvment, but your really short, youd probably see more improvement if you improve height rather than your looks. if it were the reverse, where you near a perfect tall height, with alittle room for improvement, but ugly, youd probably see more improvement if you improved your looks rather than your height.

So as we can see, its very difficult to see which trait "matters more" or will improve you more. Which trait is a better choice to improve if you had to pick one is partly dependant on your current "measurements" of your traits.
And, by the way, its very unlikely that youd be able to look at things from a perspective of "looks=80% of your attractiveness, and height=20% of your attractiveness." Most things in nature dont work like that. You wont be able to "Weight" characterisitcs contributing to attractiveness like that, only making it harder to answer which is a better choice if you had to choos one to improve.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Super Geek has a very good point: it's subjective, your opinion depends on your life long experience interacting with girls and people in general.

It's a little like the money or brain, money or fame, smart vs street smart and etc...

When I was younger (in high school), I thought height was the most important thing and I would kill to just gain a few inches... My confidence girls-wise was pretty low... I was angry at the tall kids who were constantly bringing me down. And to make things worse, some had hot and tall girls, I felt like emasculated: even their girls were taller than me...:cry:

Later on, although my height hasn't changed a bit since high school, I grew out of it. Through later very positive experiences with girls I realized that I have an attractive face. I'm a somewhat short/average(5'8"-5'9") young looking "pretty boy":whistle::p so to speak. As time passes by, I'm loving it more and more everyday. I won't think of trading my looks for a 6'+ height, not even in my worst nightmares...:D

Basically, people have very different opinions on the topic depending on their own past experience. Many tall dudes who are (supposedly) successful with the ladies will tell you that height matters more than anything else...
 
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Good Topic

This is interesting, never thought about it...

In my experience I know that my facial features, hair, style are pretty much bread and butter when it comes to getting females. I'm not short, but def. not tall... i'm 5'9.. 5'10 best day and kinda skinny and yeah I'd like to be taller if I had an 'easy' button to push haha, but not complaining... I'm doing fine

To asnwer the questions if it was tall or ugly or short and super hot... I'd go for tall and ugly. Being tall is a natural biological attractant and being tall with my current b-ball skills... I'd go straight to the NBA and get as many girls as I wanted... Short and good looking... u need ALOT of personality as well... And when i say short... i'm thinking 5'3 or something... thas bad


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I know a guy that is 5'6 and gets lots of play. He's very stocky, has wide shouders, rugged good looks and full lips. So it offsets the height issue. In fact he dates chicks taller then him.
 
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I'm 5 7',152 pounds,tom cruisish looks,and athletic build. Always clean shaven,clean cut,smelling good(cologne) and I try to look the best that I can. Wouldn't have it any other way!

I have gone out with a few chicks 2 or 3 inches taller then me with no problem...But ONE wouldn't get into a relationship with me because I was too short....She was 2 inches taller then me. She constantly told me "Why can't you be taller!"

Women aren't so tall when they are on their knees.:cool:
 
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Keep listening to girls who tell you lies or rationalities from short guys but the honest truth is this:

The taller the man is, the greater the power others perceptively believe he has.

There's nothing wrong with being a short guy, but know you're in the same line of guys that keep asking questions like "Is 5-6 inches small for a penis?" You know what those guys are...INSECURE. Women don't like hanging around a guy that will say stuff "Man I think I got a small penis or I think I'm short" You're devaluing yourself buddy. Think Jon Stewart. On TV you assume he must be 6 feet cause of his ****y and over confident attitude. Nope, he is 5' 7" In America he'd be considered below average in height, but many women would want to sleep with him. Women don't mind going out with short guys, but only if they're the same height or shorter than the guy.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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blinkwatt said:
I have gone out with a few chicks 2 or 3 inches taller then me with no problem...But ONE wouldn't get into a relationship with me because I was too short....She was 2 inches taller then me. She constantly told me "Why can't you be taller!"

Women aren't so tall when they are on their knees.:cool:
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you shouldve said: "why cant your tits be bigger?"
 
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