"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Looks: THE answer (summary)

nan3109

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Ok here's the lowdown ONCE AND FOR ALL

its this simple


all you have to do


is just


keep reading.....


1) GOOD Looks: You can easily meet a girl and use superficial **** to get her in the sack. If you lack verbal skills (etc.) your not going to be boyfriend material, that's ALL! You'll get your ***** and you'll be happy (physically) but you won't be happy mentally and turn into an AFC who writes on this board.

2) BAD Looks: You'll have to work harder to grab a women's attention, the best ingredients are a smile (****y and funny attitude) and a bottle of Jack Daniels (to hit her over the head of course!). Once you capture the attention of a young lady, you'll woe her with your charming DJ skills and keep a long term relationship


DOWNSIDES:

1) GOOD looks: Your left wanting somethign you dont have, while your getting ***** you'll want a relationship (a good girl) who doesnt put out right away.

2) BAD Looks: Your left being an AFC chump because when you and your girl may have a good relationship, like any hot attractive girl she's gonna go out WITHOUT your ass, lie to you, make YOU feel guilty, and **** others behind your back every once and awhile because your unappealing looks don't satisfy her. But your actions as a self made tampon to soak up her emotional flood of blood will keep her coming back for me absorbtion ;-)

HOPE THIS HELPS!!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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good summary nan
 

Kineti[C]harm

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Originally posted by nan3109

1) GOOD Looks: You can easily meet a girl and use superficial **** to get her in the sack. If you lack verbal skills (etc.) your not going to be boyfriend material, that's ALL! You'll get your ***** and you'll be happy (physically) but you won't be happy mentally and turn into an AFC who writes on this board.

Well good looks wont get you automaticly laid! She wont go upto you and drag you to bed after seeing you for the first time. You STILL need to make the moves and girls actually seem to ****test more if you are attractive/playerish.

1) GOOD looks: Your left wanting somethign you dont have, while your getting ***** you'll want a relationship (a good girl) who doesnt put out right away.
Looks have no relevance to what kind of relationship you will get but it is harder because I have noticed girls using me for sex and stating otherwise just due to looks etc... Another badside is that you are often more selfconscious etc AND actually more responsibility/pressure is put on you.

Not to mention the fact that if you have good looks and look like a player youll get even more ****. Ive had girls being told **** in the bathroom at clubs by girls about me like "watch it, hes a big player etc" (Which actually has always worked inn my favour :p)
 
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Please don't post advice anymore, post all you want, but no ADVICE!! PLEASE, your material is horrible and incoherent.
 

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Well there's some truth to all this. The reality is that looks do matter.

However, Kineti(C)harm is right about this:

Well good looks wont get you automaticly laid! She wont go upto you and drag you to bed after seeing you for the first time. You STILL need to make the moves and girls actually seem to ****test more if you are attractive/playerish.
Looks will draw more looks your way, attention, smiles and compliments but unless you make the moves, that's as much as you'll get with a woman you've never previously met.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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